After a number of years keeping my husband in permanent chastity I have reached the conclusion best results can be achieved when my husband’s chastity cycle is designed to coincide with my menstrual cycle. Why I didn’t figure this out earlier god only knows – it’s a complete revelation and has significantly improved our relationship for the better.
I allow my husbands full release – i.e. orgasm ( and therefore start of a new cycle for him) to occur at day 24 of my menstrual cycle. During day 24 to 28 of my cycle, in the days before my period, I feel least like sex and my husbands whining is most likely to annoy me.
Between day 24 to 28 of my cycle ( Day 1-4 of his ) I allow him to cum as much as he likes, in fact i demand it. Whilst it might seem counter-intuitive in a female led relationship, ideally your husband should be cumming at least 5 times a day during this period. He will find this hard at the start. He will not be used to cumming without your permission, he will be low on sexual energy after his 28 day orgasm and you will have to be strict with him to make sure that he hits his daily 5 cums a day target. He has had the belt from me a number of times over the last 6 months for failure to do so. This is the only time that i don’t expect my husband to eat his cum for me, although you can still demand this if you wish. You can supervise his masturbation or just get him to come and show you the proof that he has ejaculated – A humiliating idea is to buy him a little bowl that he has to cum in or alternatively make him cum in a condom. What is important is that you give his balls a good work out.
You want to kick start them into sperm production overload, so that when you finally lock him up on day 5 of his cycle ( day one of my menstrual cycle ) he will quickly reach his POMCI ( period of maximum courtship investment.) – There is a good article explaining this on the dreamloverlabs.com site.
POMCI is the point of maximum obedience, the point where your male is most sexually frustrated and most willing to serve. Once this point has been reached, provided you maintain a daily tease and denial session, there is no significant drop off and his level of sexual frustration will be maintained until to the point of his next full orgasm. Day 5 ( lock up day ) will be particularly frustrating for your male. As he has cum so much in days 1-4 his dopamine levels will be very low and his prolactin levels high. Consequently he is likely to resist to wanting to go back into chastity. A good way around this is to make him wear a set on handcuffs on one wrist during an extended tease and denial session at the start of day 5 before lock up. When you have finished tell him to put his chastity cuff on. Until the chastity device goes on the cuffs don’t come off – a very simple an effective technique to getting his compliance and getting his penis safely locked up.
Most males will reach their POMCI point within 9 -12 days of being denied an orgasm. Through my technique of forced masturbation and ejaculation during days 1-4 of his cycle I have managed to cut my husbands POMCI point down to 8 days after lock-up, so he reaches this point around day 12 of his cycle.
My period has normally finished by day 6 of my cycle and i am ready to have him start to provide me with oral service. Day 6 of my cycle is day 10 of his so by this point he is more than eager to “be a good boy” and provide me all the service I require.
I normally feel horniest during days 8 -16 of my cycle and then there is a slow tail off until around day 20 when I start to prepare for my next period and my desire for sex is low.
Let’s compare this to his cycle. Day 8 of my cycle is day 12 of his, so marvellously my desire for sex directly coincides with his POMCI point or the point of his maximum sexual frustration and willingness to serve. I then have 12 days ( days 8 – 20 of my cycle ) of an obedient, sexually compliant male giving me all the sex i crave with out complaint and additionally a male who is willing to do all the household chores that I give him.
Normally around day 14 of his cycle I will give him a prostate milking with an Aneros prostate massager ( there are lots of articles around detailing how you can do this this – Lady Lubyanka’s technique is the best on the web IMO.) If you do this properly you will clean his pipes without reducing any of his sexual frustration or desire to serve. You must absolutely ensure that you only milk him rather than allow him to cum. If you always insist on your hubby eating his cum as I do apart from during day 1-4 of his cycle ( although I sometimes do that as well LOL ) you will be able tell if his has cum i.e. had a full orgasm. Milked husbands and boyfriends eat up all their cum without any complaint, whilst males who have cum will often resist.
This will take him through to day 28 of his cycle, day 24 of mine and a full release. I always try to make his release session nice and humiliating for him – After all he’s earned it. A good pegging session followed by flipping his legs above his head and jerking 28 days worth of frustration on his face normally does the trick.
I hope you find this technique useful. Its taken me nearly five years of trial and error to get to this point of understanding how to manage my husbands chastity cycle to my best advantage. If you use this method I promise you that your relationship will be all the stronger and that you will have a well trained and obedient male.
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