Our life is quite full. Family = lots of various kid activities. Add to that a wife that is in a masters program which includes an internship and you end up having difficulting finding personal time to develop a quality D/s FLR style relationship. As noted in one of my earliest posts I went WAY too fast in sharing all of the things I was interested in and setting expectations unrealistically high (See Slow & Steady Wins The Race). A few times I told her that maybe we should wait until she graduated so that we could take more time to make things work out. She would always just say something along the lines of “just give me time – I want to try to make it work”. Eventually she said that we would have some more fun during her break for the holiday between semesters. But various holiday activities and family in town and the ever growing to-do list needing to be dealt with and a number of people getting sick in the family there ended up being very little time to focus on each other. Don’t get me wrong, I still rub her back every night as she requests. But nothing along the lines of progressing in what I perceive to be an FLR marriage.
The last time we ended up discussing the possibility of maybe taking a break I expressed to her that the one thing I would like to see happen if we were to continue trying amidst our busy schedules is that she either wear the key on a necklace or she keep it hidden at all times. That led to the post I mentioned about her getting embarrased by the questions about the key at work so she went to just hiding it. That worked until she got busy and overwhelmed and after letting me out for some edging ended up leaving it in the same spot for a few days. I hesitated to bring it up but felt like it was the one thing I requested of her and thought maybe this would be the justification for taking a break until her schooling is done.
Her response was to tell me that she didn’t want to stop because she prefers the way I act/behave towards her when I’m caged as she knows that it keeps me mindful of her and the relationship we are trying to build. So she told me that if it took her wearing the key and her learning to deal with the questions that come with it from friends and co-workers then so be it. And when I told her I didn’t want her to do something that made her uncomfortable she cut me off and said that she was not negotiating about things anymore. “This is the way it is going to be.”
So now she wears it with a tag that reads “Choose Happiness”. And the expectation at this point is that I am still expected to remain locked through Valentines Day with no signs of her bending as of yet.
Now I am really excited for her to be done with her schooling.
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