There are many mixed views on making your hubby eat cum, and we are not here to tell you to do it or not to do it.  The only things that matter is that if the woman wants it and makes her feel more power, then she should do it.

Word of caution though.  Most men will not want to do this.  I am certainly one of them.  I don’t want to do this, and my inclination would be to chicken out if she tried to make me do it on some bargain.

So here it what I suggest for the woman.  Only do it, if you will not lose respect for your hubby, but instead will feel more powerful in the relationship.  It takes a man comfortable in his own skin to be able to do this for you.  If he wants too, and you don’t, then don’t.  That is not the reason to do it.  If you don’t want to, don’t do it at all EVER!

This is merely a way for you to get him in a submissive state of mind.  It is  Neuro Linguistic Programming.  When a man comes, he is at his least submissive state.  If you make him eat it, you are training him to submit back immediately.  Many female led relationship blogs insist that this is a requirement of him no matter what.

Not being a cum eater, and a male, of course I disagree.  However, your relationship and how this effects you is what ultimately matters.  If you are a woman learning to take charge and you are enjoying your power that you are gaining over your man, this might be something to discuss with him.  If his reactions are an absolute no, then you should shoot for trying to make it happen.  Purely to elevate the perception of control.  If he says no, then he is saying he will only listen to what makes him happy, and that is not really control.  If he says he doesn’t want to do it, but would to make you happy, then the only question left is, will it make you happy?

If it doesn’t, then you have it plain and simple.  Don’t do it.

If you are curious and you are strong enough to not let it change the perception of your man and it reinforces your love for him because you are so in love with a man that would do something so nasty to please you, then you HAVE to do it.

Either way, it is not as cut an dry do it like so many female led relationship blogs say.  It is ultimately up to the woman, and more about how it will make her feel than anything.