Do you think your sub finds keeping up to your standards hard? And if so is this good for a submissive? To be kept on their toes at all times or is it better to have consistency and keep it easier for them as you get all the benefits of orgasm/service when they don’t, so they get something back? Im curious as to your opionon.
AnonymousI’m very demanding and very much the perfectionist, so yes, I’m sure he finds it hard. And yes, I believe that is good – it’s the only way in my view. So he’s kept on his toes at all times and I’m very consistent that way.
That way I indeed get all the benefits I’m looking for. He gets a lot back, but entirely at my discretion. Clear?
Too much consistency, and he will begin to think he can or should be able to earn rewards. No way. Need to keep him off guard so you wield the power