The woman sat across from her partner, fidgeting with the collar in her hands. She had been thinking about this conversation for weeks, ever since she had first discovered the world of BDSM and the concept of a submissive partner.
“I know this may be a little out of the blue,” she began, “but I’ve been doing some thinking and I want to explore this side of myself. And I want to do it with you.”
Her partner looked at her with a mix of curiosity and concern. “What do you mean?” he asked.
“I want you to be my submissive,” the woman replied, her voice shaking slightly. “I want to be your dominant, and I want you to wear this collar as a symbol of your submission to me.”
The man’s eyes widened in surprise, and he sat back in his chair. “I don’t know if I’m ready for something like that,” he said. “I’ve never even thought about being someone’s submissive before.”
“I understand if it’s not something you’re interested in,” the woman said, her heart sinking. “But I just wanted to be honest with you about my desires and see if we could explore them together. I think it could be really hot and fulfilling for both of us.”
The man was silent for a moment, considering her words. Then he reached out and took the collar from her hands. “I’m willing to try,” he said, a hint of a smile on his lips. “But we need to set some boundaries and make sure we both feel comfortable and safe.”
The woman’s face lit up with joy. “Thank you,” she said, leaning across the table to give him a kiss. “I’m so glad you’re willing to give this a chance with me.”
And with that, the woman and her partner began a new journey together, exploring their desires and building a deep and loving connection through their roles as dominant and submissive.
This is a great example on how you can bring it up to your partner.
To be owned to be controlled to receive a gift that symbolizes it thank you