To all of you that I have not replied via e-mail, I apologise. I was quite busy lately and my inbox is boiling. Furthermore, I always have to make a selection of fake male Dommes asking various “jerk off” questions.
When it comes to questions from ladies, I see much confusion and hesitation. The most important thing is to make it clear with yourself, what is it that you really want. Whether it is a real FLR or just occasional play and “doing it for your partner”.
If you are just a bit disgusted with the idea of real FLR, abandon it immediately. Single sided satisfaction guarantees problems in any relationship. On the other hand, if you feel like that is the right thing for your relationship, you know where to begin.
Women complain how passive their partners are, they just sit and wait for you to “do something”. There is nothing to complain about, this is the way it functions. If you want a FLR, you are the one that has to be on top of things all the time.
Teaching you submissive of his new role in your relationship is essential. Most of the submissives have different ideas about being a servant. This mostly ends with topping from the bottom, something that you need to avoid at any cost, if you are trying to establish your own FLR.
Often I get questions like how to teach a man humility, a man you love deeply. Like any other relationship, FLR requires being built on love and trust. But I do understand this question, as it is difficult to balanace between these two things.
Think of it this way…You love him and you are giving him what he wants. How can that be wrong?
Good thing about FLR is that he gets what he always wanted. You can get from him thing you never imagined before. Bad thing is being a bitch requires a lots of work on this issue and it practically never ends.
Fortunately or not, his training never ends. It is amazing how quickly they tend to forget who is the boss, once you stop showing it to him.
One of the things women tend to forget about trainig is to train your submissive to say thanks, no matter what you do to him. And to realize he deserved it.
TRAINING NEVER ENDS!
Still I look forward to more question form lovely Dominant or Dommes to be, women :)….
CLF
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The more I see your files , it makes me feel so submissive and wanting to be in a long term FLR . Obedience to a woman , to worship her as my dominant Superior Goddess is what makes me happy , to serve as her submissive slave .