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My Boyfriend Wants Me to be More Dominant in Bed

Now domination or femdom is all “in the head” … it’s a headgame … and when it comes to headgames women always have the advantage. So claim it!

Femdom is about attitude and play-acting even more so than about clothing or real sex. Just sex (that is, regular straight sex) and you ordering him to “do” you isn’t all you can do. As his “owner” the ball is in your court. And first of all you need to be honest with yourself and ask what you like: massage? foot rubs? receiving oral? Then incorporate what you like in bed with a femdom twist and it’s a win-win situation.

Female domination is about uncovering and exploiting vulnerabilities in the male psyche. So anything that drives him into deeper submission to you is useful. Does he have any weaknesses or fetishes? Most males submissives are natural foot fetishists. It makes sense, right? After all what better way to humble himself than to kiss the lowest point of your body.

One easy way to humble him (and remind him of his place) is to make him kiss your feet. Then, if you enjoy it, make him suck your toes while you lean back  and watch TV or even talk on the phone. Feel free to ignore him a little and make him work hard for your attention. Make him “earn” your interest. Think of it as a game. One in which you’re both having fun.

Taking advantage of a man’s foot fetish is a big way of exploiting his submissive side. He’ll be embarrassed and that’s a good thing. Humiliation for a male sub reminds him of his place, which is under your feet. ;) So make him your literal (and figurative) footstool, to start. He’ll love it! (And love you for it!)

If you are okay with a little physical roughhousing, go there. A little love slap at the right time works wonders, but remember YOUR PLEASURE must always come before his. From now on, it’s about slowly and carefully making him fulfill YOUR needs. As your submissive or sub, he doesn’t even need to climax. In fact, many dominant women practice chastity with their mates. The more horny he is the better. If you’re into other things, guide him there.

Source: Femdom Planet

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