Ms Alexandra Stevens writing on Male Obedience is some of the best that I have found. Here is the first article from her marvellous blog, we have copied it here, and left credit to the source at the bottom of this very well written article.
MOBT 000 – Male Obedience Training
OVERVIEW OF MALE OBEDIENCE TRAINING (MOBT)
Male Obedience Training or MOBT is an essential
training regimen for the modern dominant female (femdom) to train her submissive male (malesub) psychologically and physiologically through the use of enforced penis control, chastity and orgasm denial. MOBT is a lifestyle for the established husband and wife, the young couple, the dominatrix and submissive, and even in some instances in a work setting between female superior and subordinate.
It is crucial that every woman establish her supremacy and control over her man. Every man today needs to undergo MOBT at some stage of his life to teach him self-control and obedience, and to shape him to his fullest potential in respect of the female in his life. Every female should exercise MOBT on her male to establish her control over him, to obtain the proper respect and obedience from him, and to achieve his maximum performance and sexual servitude toward her pleasure needs.
MOBT FOR CREATING THE MODERN OBEDIENT MALE
In order for a woman to truly control a man, she must control his penis erectile, arousal and ejaculatory systems. This requires the female to control and regulate all male masturbation, penetration and ejaculation of her man, including restraint of the male penis in a locked chastity device (to restrict access to the cock) and forbidding male semen ejaculation for long, extended periods (the concept of orgasm denial) under her control.
MOBT allows the female to control male actions and make him obedient and attentive to her desires and commands. Sexually, MOBT ensures the man demonstrates strong erectile performance and self-control for his female at all times. The MOBT male is able to achieve multiple erections upon touch and demand by his female trainer – he is ready for penetration if she wants and demands it. The MOBT male is focused on servicing and pleasuring his female – he is ready to effectively service the female genitals to bring ecstasy to his femdom for hours of pleasure and multiple orgasms for her. The MOBT male demonstrates his ability to withhold ejaculation for his femdom – he respects female authority and embraces obedience to the wishes of his female.
The modern male is undisciplined, whether young, middle-aged or mature. He needs female control, whether he realizes or admits it. Young men are virile, but lack self-control and they do masturbate excessively. Middle-aged males are more settled, but they are also inattentive to their females and eventually become unfaithful. Mature men may be more dependable, but they are often also impotent. Each man in each stage of life needs the control and redirection that a successful MOBT program can provide to the penis and the man.
THE BENEFITS OF MOBT FOR A MAN
The long-term benefits and pleasure aspects of MOBT for a man cannot be overstated, but when introduced can cause great anxiety in most men. MOBT means a complete loss of sexual control for a man under the command of his femdom. MOBT means the end of traditional sex – masturbation, penetration and ejaculation until the femdom wants and demands it. It means a man will be denied orgasm and semen release for long periods. He will need to endure frustration and emotional changes for his woman. Then, he will be rewarded by her with great pleasure as he performs for her.
The program includes aspects of domination, restraint, humiliation, discipline, discomfort, punishment and pain that will frighten the malesub at first. However, once the modern male is introduced and indoctrinated into MOBT, he achieves great personal pleasure, pride and prowess that he has never known. The MOBT male is kept in a state of perpetual arousal as his femdom trains and stimulates him. He rides waves of pleasure and frustration as his femdom teases him and prevents him from reaching climax. He essentially becomes multi-orgasmic, like a woman, by practicing sexual continence – the process of penis excitement without semen cum. He builds further and further desire by not being allowed to release and ejaculate. Over time, the male will not want to return to a normal lifestyle nor want traditional sex, as he once knew it. He will not want to be in control. He will embrace the concept of denial for his femdom and will focus on her pleasure.
MOBT will train your male in self-control, respect, and discipline. He will erect his penis daily for you, his femdom, through denial and semen buildup. His fidelity to you will be ensured as you control his sexual functions and build his endurance and strength.
MOBT SEMEN LOADING AND TRAINING PERIODS FOR MALE CONTROL
MOBT achieves a hard cock, submission and obedience in a man through the “loading principle” – the denial of orgasm to a man and the buildup of semen over time. For a man, this promotes perpetual excitement, penis arousal and male compliance.
The “base” period for a man is 1-3 days without cum where he becomes hard and experiences new feelings and emotions through ejaculatory denial. During this time, the male penis should be locked in a male chastity device without release or stimulation.
The “training” period occurs between 4-7 days of no cum for a man, when he must learn to overcome strong feelings to ejaculate. During this period, the male penis is released from chastity to undergo tease-and-denial and erection management training by his femdom designed to teach him sustained erections and ejaculation control. Training runs from 15 minutes to 2 hours, after which the penis is locked back in the chastity device.
The “maximum” load period occurs between the 8th and 12th day of no cum, when the male becomes compliant and fully-obedient to the instructions of his female trainer. Longer and more intense periods of excitement (including controlled penetrations) can be permitted the malesub here, as he now will have achieved the desire to not cum and to demonstrate his self-control for his femdom.
The “fully-loaded” period occurs after day 12 of denial when the male sacs are filled with unreleased semen. The male can be kept in statis after this point by employing prostate massage and milking, strap-on penetration, and other regulatory techniques designed to relieve malesub internal pressure and desire for ejaculation.
The “reward-release” period occurs after 15 days of denial, at which time the malesub may be ejaculated by the femdom, or agreement can be reached to extend the malesub’s period of orgasm denial. It is recommended to always push male limits as far as possible in terms of denial period.
The “extended-training” period ranges from 30 days to 2 months of denial during which time the malesub experiences a range of wide emotional changes, joys and fantasies at the hand of his femdom – being deprived orgasm for extended periods.
The “castration” period occurs generally between 2-3 months, when extended denial and semen buildup causes the malesub to experience dripping of semen and nocturnal secretions from a full calendar quarter of semen buildup and orgasm denial.
MOBT ORGASM DENIAL PERIODS AND AGE TRAINING OBJECTIVES
Orgasm denial periods and MOBT training objectives will range depending on the age of the man and his state in life. Recommended guidelines for Denial Periods are as follows:
Age of Man Concern Minimum Stretch Cums/Year Objective
21 to 35 Self-Control 3-7 Days 7-15 Days
The source for this article is: http://cuckoldhusbandobediencetraining.tumblr.com/post/86477855257/ms-alexandra-stevens-writing-on-male-obedience-is
Sorry, but this almost 60 year old cock stays FREE forever. My wife and I have a fulfilling and faithful sex life. At my age, I regretfully realize that I don’t have THAT MANY erections left. While I am pretty compliant to my wife’s wishes, I would NEVER consent to being locked in chastity. We’ve been chaste in our faithfulness to each other since we met, and MY cock swings free forever!
I am 57 and have had erectile dysfunction for over a decade. I rarely feel the need to cum. This training is based on the premise of keep the male in a state of sexual excitement and I rarely feel that anymore, I cannot remember the last time I have not dripped in I am not sure how long and I have not had a nocturnal emission since I was in my late teens.
So unless there is a way to increase my sex drive, I see very little hope of this working.
Very informative
I shudder with anticipation of your skills to be witnessed, giggles. On my knees.
I am ready
I found this an interesting read. I think the bottom portion is missing and the last couple of linz is the top of a table. I searched the net to find the remaining text. But, only found the same truncation. If someone else finds the remainder please post it.
I too am one of the older men at 59. My wife died of cancer last year. We had a healthy sex life up until her last months. I found sex without orgasm to be among the most intimate times, an absolute pleasure for both of us. Since her death my sex drive and desire for masturbation and climax has had its ups and downs. I have taken to chastity periods on my own. Currently 32 days. I am unsure how long this session will continue I have extended it twice so far. My record is 73 days.
I do wish that we had found the blessings of sex without male orgasm in my younger days. I think that back then I may have required some sort of device. I recall reading of them but did not see ads until my middle years. When I suggested devices to my wife she was put off by them. So that did not go far.
I am Wiliam “valleygirl” I love this site and dream daily of finding a woman to devote myself fully to in this way. My desire to surrender fully to a dominant Woman just keeps getting stronger as I age.
I found this very interesting . Sine I have 25 years old with no female I will save the blog till I find her
I have worn a chastity device, off and on for the past two years. I have gone as long as 110 days caged with no release. The basis behind is factual and real, but the leading female must show attention to control or the entire process is for not.
I have been in the same situation, for the last 2 years, on and off chastity, but the longest i’ve been was over 250 days. I completely agree with you when you say the leading femalemust show attention, and this was oneof the reasons I went off chastity.
Interesting article. I am 67 years old and I am addicted to jerking off. I am about to lock myself up in chasity for thirty days and see what happens. Hope I can make it
Thank you for an informative article. i learned new things.
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Sounds really interesting. Worth a go perhaps?
You have no idea on the rewards for you Marcia….. no idea.
Really wish my girlfriend would take control like this! I am sure the rewards would be great for the both of us
Thank you for posting this article. MOBT – I like the sounds of it!!
A vey informative and instructive article. Thanks for posting this.
Thank you for this post Mistress.
A very useful article for me .As a sub I am always glad to to my mistress happy .Nen isalways for women to satisfy them as a ടൂൾ.
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Medical study’s suggest that daily release of pressure can reduce prostatic cancers significantly… But yes, no doubt, a women can control all aspect of her man that way…. I would encourage smaller gaps…. Please ….
Very nice
This article definately portrays this type of control in an intrigueing way. I would like to try this on a willing male. I’m sure it really does train him to become totaly subserviant and obediant.
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Hi Mistress. As a male sub how do I overcome the fear of not being able to orgasm and the fear of discovery by friends / colleagues? I struggle with those things. I want to be better for my wife but don’t want to mess up the rest of my life in the process. Is that selfish of me?
Some useful information, would love to learn more.
I’m 43 and I’ve been chaste only for about 10 days now. The first few days the tease and denial sessions made me extremely over sensitive to the point of wanting to cum before I was even hard. The past few days it’s been difficult for me to even get an erection. We must be doing something wrong because I find my sex drive diminishing.
That’s due to you thinking less of a man than what you are and/or your over dependance on your penis as the chief symbol of your manhood.
I bet I could use 30 days in lockup and no I don’t think that it would cause any problems, especially if the idea is to surrender complete control, which, by the way, is the most enlightened and difficult thing to do because it runs counter intuitively to our animal brain. If you give her your complete attention and she gives you hers then that is the relationship which everyone is jealous of.
Would love to be locked, and fucked by a beautiful strong domina.
I would give anything to find a loving femdom who could make me submit to her like this
My husband’s training starts to work and is happier, more obedient and I am more relaxed in time and sex. Thank you I will follow the training as far as possible. I don’t speak English and I use a googl translator. Which prevents any personal participation. Thank you at least for free hypno and tutorials. sissyandrea
Fantasticke. I caught my husband with another. He got the condition. Divorce and departure. Or slavery. To my surprise, he agreed to slavery in the form of sissy. Regular exercises, hypnosis, procedures, order. And strict control. Now not quite complete but trying to sissy. He mastered cuckold twice and you eat your own and stranger cum.
At home, everything is working right now. There is a clean, tidy, regular diet and time for his exercises and punishments.
Thank Master Lara M
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I agree with the article. The man must be subordinate to the woman. My husband is also under my direction. Now obedient and always humble and longing. I became a master and he was a slave.
Thank You for Your wonderful comment. i wish You and Your husband a fulfilling life, with You in charge. :-)
yes i agree
This is one of my FAVORITE articles at FemdomTraining.ca ! It’s exciting to think of surrenduring to a dominant woman, and serving Her in every way. i love the idea of being hypnotically conditioned and programmed by a woman. Also, signing a written contract of servitude. Plus, most or all of a man’s earnings go into Her bank account. Being totally owned and controlled by a woman is a blissful life.
I am 57 years young and love sex. I’d cum 3 to 4 times a day if my mistress would allow. I love serving her, licking her to many orgsms . She wants creampie eating and I’m not comfortable with that. She says if I want to keep cuming I will or get locked up. I’m not comfortable with that either. She says if I let you cum you must consume it, every time. Proplexed
I completely agree with her. Do it.
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I am 55 years old now and a single for about two years. Chastity has been on my mind for about 15 years, but none of my dominant girl-friends ever understood the benefits of chastity and so they didn’t want it to happen. I think it is sad that there is not more and/or better understanding on how much male chastity can and will improve a relationship between a woman and her male.
I’m 68 and have experienced tease and denial training combined with obedience and punishment training and I can assure you that if you have submissive tendencies and your partner is motivated it works. It is very powerful stuff in the right set of hands.
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