onthekneesnow:

There is a woman at the end of that strap-on

From the woman’s point of view, here’s a hint, guys.  Don’t pursue the toy with greater enthusiasm than you pursue the woman. Women who peg, it’s nice to know how much you guys enjoy it…but it is also nice to feel like you are interested in us as people first and wearers of dildos second. Get to know us…meet us for coffee or dinner…have some conversations with us.

To be pursued as primarily the wearer of a strap-on is quite off-putting; like being used to satisfy your fantasy. If you truly only want to get pegged and are not interested in the woman doing the pegging, just go find a professional!