There’s no denying that dominant women have a unique power over their male partners — and this power extends to the realm of sexual pleasure. One of the most popular ways to explore this power is to get your man to eat his own cum.
It might sound intimidating, but it can be an incredibly pleasurable experience for both parties. For the dominant woman, it’s a way to show her dominance and control. For the man, it’s a way to show his submission and willingness to please.
If you’ve been intrigued by the idea of getting your man to eat his own cum, here are some tips to help you make it happen.
Start with an Open Conversation
The first step to getting your man to eat his own cum is to have an open and honest conversation about it. This is especially important if it’s a new concept for both of you. You don’t want to surprise him with the idea and expect him to go along with it.
Talk about your fantasies and desires and make sure he’s comfortable with the idea. Be open and honest about why you want him to do it and make sure he feels respected in the process.
Set Up a Safe, Comfortable Space
Once you’ve had the conversation and you’re both comfortable with the idea, it’s time to set up a safe and comfortable space where you can explore this new experience. Make sure you have everything you need — like a bed, a blanket, and some towels.
You should also create a signal so that he can let you know if he’s feeling uncomfortable. This signal could be anything from a safe word to a physical gesture.
Talk About Your Expectations
Before you start exploring cum-eating, it’s important to talk about your expectations. Discuss what you both want and don’t want from the experience. This will help ensure that you both feel safe and comfortable.
It’s also important to set boundaries. For example, if you don’t want him to swallow the cum, make sure you communicate that before you start.
Encourage Him to Enjoy It
Once you’ve talked about your expectations and set up a safe space, it’s time to get started. The key is to make sure he feels comfortable and enjoys the experience.
Encourage him to take his time and savor the taste and texture. You can also talk dirty and provide positive reinforcement if he’s doing something you like.
Be Patient
It’s important to be patient and understanding throughout. Start by talking to him about it and making sure he feels comfortable discussing the topic. Then, try a few different techniques such as oral sex or hand stimulation to get him closer to cumming. When he finally does, be sure to encourage and praise him for his accomplishment. With enough time and effort, you can get your man to enjoy the unique taste of his own cum.
Once you have gotten him to accept this as a condition of cumming, you can play all sorts of fun games with this.
Here are just a few fun suggestions:
- get him to ejaculate onto your feet and lick it up
- get him to ejaculate onto a strap on , and suck and lick it all off
- get him to eat it out of you after sex.
- get him to ejaculate into your hands, and you hand feed it to him.
With a little creativity, this can create a very steamy sex life, and a way for him to not want to have orgasms because of the price it will cost. Of course reduced orgasms for your man is a big part of femdom roleplay.
I finally got comfortable eating my own cum but last night she came home from a date and I had to eat her bull’s cream-pie it was awful and exciting
Well written, informative and good reading. We’ve discussed this, She said soon we’d cross that bridge, looking forward to seeing my submission grow and Her dominance is what I crave 24/7
The first few times weren’t too great (not bad either) but there was lack of communication about. Guess I learned that the hard way.
Later with someone else we did talk about it more. After a few times, I got lucky she gave me a blowjob. When I was about to cum, all I could think off, was to kiss her and taste as much of it I could.
Now it’s a lovely added bonus whenever I cum.
Cum eating is a major factor