I just wanted to give my thoughts to anyone that’s new to Wife Led Marriages. If this is something you have fantasized about please be warned this may take off and become real. My extremely vanilla wife now rules the household with an iron fist. If you are a husband reading this beware this can become very real, very fast. If you are a wife be sure you will be comfortable seeing your husband in the role as submissive husband. This dynamic will make him soft and demure in your daily lives. For me it works perfectly. I am a natural submissive and my wife always had a bit of a dominate streak, which has expanded greatly as of late.
At the start she took over sexually. In the first couple of years I was forced to give up masturbating and edging. She still allows me to edge occasionally, but I have to gain permission. After eight years I still find asking my wife to touch myself humiliating. She, of course, can still masturbate; usually without me. Sorry guys, but you will probably give up blow jobs. I was told that she would never put me in her mouth again and she hasn’t. Oral sex will become very one way in your life. I have other rules and rituals that are followed in the bedroom. After a couple of years a male chastity device was introduced and she made me put it on usually when I was denied or if I was drinking or high.
For about the next 6 or 7 years not a lot happened beyond the sexual side of it. She became a little more entitled and liked making the decisions, but not a significant change for me. Suddenly after I retired she has decided she wants to run everything. After a bit of a disagreement she punished me for the first time. I think realizing she could do that flipped a switch deep inside. Out of the blue she comes to me and says “I’m closing my account and moving it over to yours, I will pay the bills, so finances are no longer your concern”. “If you need to buy something ask me and by the way I want you to cancel your credit card”. If you get to this point in your WLM this will probably be the tipping point in your mind. The point that you realize she is in charge and there is no going back. Even since I did my profile she told me I am not allowed to leave the driveway without permission (this may have more to do with the virus than dominance). Although I doubt this will go away with the virus as she is not big on reversing rules. She has also decided she wants me in the chastity cage 24/7. I am still negotiating this, but it appears it is going to happen. Edit-I started writing this a few days ago; since that time I have lost the negotiations.
I just wanted to caution anybody thinking about WLM that this can become real in the blink of an eye. Make sure you are truly submissive and that pleasing your wife is your only goal. Real and fantasy are two different things. Once you enter into this it may be impossible to get out. Wives make sure that you are willing to be his mistress. Once you see him submit and humiliate himself you will not look at him the same.
That being said, I think it has been a wonderful experience for my wife and I. We have both grown into our roles and are very happy. Thanks for reading, Take care and stay safe.- Alan
Guest Post: “A Word of Advice” by Alan
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