I am not cool with hubby playing without me. it’s important to me that I be his only real partner while I pointedly have the power to take others (even if I very rarely do because of Ben). we both enjoy how “unfair” this is; it feels like a critical part of our consensual power exchange
Source: A Happy Cuckoldress
Love the fact ‘she’ has the power and or OK to take others and he does not… it is as it should be.