I think you should go easy at first. If you just handcuff him to the bed, then take out the ball gag and big bottle of lube, it might not end up not well.
You need to figure out your guy first. Guys are different. Some are just not into a submissive role at all. With them, perhaps the best you could hope for is to let them take the lead every now and then or to trade favors. Other guys are very much into it and would get a boner mid-sentence when you broach the topic. But I suspect most guys would fall into a blurry middle zone between the two – guys who actually would be into it, perhaps very much so, but would hesitate to admit it. Some would even never admit it because they think it would be unmanly, or are ashamed of their fantasies and are determined to hide it forever.

It took me ten years together with my lady before I mustered the courage to talk about my pegging fantasies. That’s how hard it can be for men to admit kinks like this.

I’d suggest gently testing the waters first. There are some things you can do, for example:

– You can tell her you had a dream about dominating someone and that it turned you on a bit; see how he reacts.  
– Watch porn together. Have each other choose clips that turn them on. See how he feels about femdom vids.
– Play a game. Ask each other: if you were to direct a porn movie, what kind of porn would it be? Describe him your movie and see how he reacts.

If you get an enthusiastic “Let’s try this!”, wonderful. But if not, then if he didn’t react with a definite “Eww!”, you’ve at least planted a seed of curiosity. 

At some point, bring it up in again. Have a conversation about your sexual desires. Tell him there’s this thing that you’d like to try out some time, and gauge his reaction again. Try to get him on board with some lighter kink at first; give him time to explore, discover and grow. Kink is a journey, as they say.

I’d like my followers to chime in. Ladies who have been in this situation: How did you approach this? How did it go? What worked? What didn’t?

Source: Pegging Training

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