Turning your husband into a cuckold can be one of
the most rewarding things you ever do. A successfully cuckolded husband
will be completely submissive. He will satisfy all your sexual
cravings, manage all the mundane chores of your life, allow you to sleep
with whomever you wish, subject himself to any amount of humiliation
you desire, and of course, love you unconditionally.
But be
warned, cuckolding can also be one of the most challenging things you
ever do. The process is long, complicated, energy consuming, and by no
means sure of success. The strain on your marriage will be unbelievable,
and it may be weeks or months before you succeed. In the end though, it
will be worth it.
Hopefully this will help educate women on how
to begin the wonderful journey of female domination and to hopefully
relieve some of the apprehension that might prevent a woman from ever
trying. After reading this it will be clearer that cuckolding your
husband is not as hard as it seems, and that accomplishing this feat is
more possible than you thought.
The most common reason a women
doesn’t cuckold her husband is that she thinks he’ll never go for it –
that he’s not the type. This is such a myth that it must be dispelled
immediately. Many cuckolds begin as ordinary husbands. Your husband may
even be as manly as men come, but don’t worry, cuckolding is often a
just a matter of helping your hubby discover his submissive side. Take
heart in the fact that underneath all his machissimo and pride, there is
a cock loving wimp that is begging you to force him to do all sorts of
nasty things.
First train yourself
Think of cuckolding as
an expertise. For the wife who decides to cuckold her husband, she must
have complete mastery of certain skills. Much like in any profession –
she must go to school, read, and practice. So like a professional,
before you ever begin training your husband, you must first train
yourself. You’re about to go on an incredible journey; you want to be
prepared, right?
The world of cuckolding is unlike the normal
world. It has various rules and customs that are different from everyday
life, of which you must be aware. You must immerse yourself in this new
culture. To begin, start reading erotic stories that deal with
cuckolding. Many women before you have cuckolded their husbands and
recorded their experiences. Also many men have written about their
decent into female domination. Learn from them. Reading stories will
acquaint you to the new world of cuckolding and will prevent you from
having to reinvent anything. Beyond stories, you may want to read books
on female domination, and buy videos of a dominatrix humiliating men.
You
must also train yourself to be sexually independent. If you want to
control your husband you need to not need his penis. In the future you
will need to deny your husband the pleasures of your body and this will
be only possible if you are strong enough to abstain from sex. Sex
between you and your hubby is probably pretty vanilla anyway if you’re
thinking about cuckolding him, so it shouldn’t be too hard. Masturbate
often. Splurge on vibrators, dildos, lotions, clothing, and pornography.
Have fun! Visit your local sex shop and ask for ideas. You may also
want to think about buying toys that, after using on yourself, you can
also use on your husband once he’s properly trained. The key is whenever
you really have the urge for a fucking, train yourself to seek
satisfaction from a source other than your husband. For example, when
you’re horny, take out your vibrator.
A good way to help your
training along is to change your appearance. Make it your goal to become
a hotwife. The prime focus of a hotwife is expressing her sexuality in
all manners, from the type of shoes she wears to the way she shaves her
pussy. A hotwife wears tight fitting clothes as much as she can. She
wears short skirts, perfume, and high-heels all the time. She does her
hair and wears makeup daily. At night she wears sexy lingerie. She goes
to the gym often. When she goes to the grocery store she doesn’t wear
underwear. If you start doing thing like these, not only will you be
sending a signal to your husband that you’ve changed, but you’ll be
sending a signal to yourself. Because you look like a hotwife, you’ll
think you’re a hotwife, and then you’ll be a hotwife! The advantages to
being a hotwife are numerous. You’re husband will lust for you much
more, even if he doesn’t show it, other men will croon over you (this
will increase your confidence), and your sexual energy will increase,
all of which you can channel into power.
Also feel free to start
flirting. It’s probably been a long time since you’ve flirted with
another man, so you’ll need practice. Look men in the eyes and smile. If
you drop something in the office, bend over without bending your knees.
At night go out with girlfriends that like to party. Make it a goal to
flirt with at least one man a day. The key is to increase you’re
confidence. Not only will it be very satisfying to know that there are
other men out there who are interested in you, but in the back of your
mind you can use this knowledge as leverage against your husband.
Beginning
Once
you’ve properly educated yourself in the art cuckolding, freed yourself
from your husband’s dick, and increased your confidence, it’s time to
begin.
The first submission of your husband is the most
challenging phase of the process. Even if he wants to be your slave, he
will resist. There are many reasons he will do this like gender
stereotypes and the years of routine between you, but first and foremost
will be that he wants to save-face. Not only can he not admit to you
that he wants to be your bitch, but he can’t admit it to himself either.
He will never just give you power over him even though he wants to.
This would violate his manhood. You need to take it from him – it’s the
only way.
During this time, the power in your relationship will
be in flux. Neither of you will be sure where the other stands. This
uncertainty will be uncomfortable for both of you because it is human
nature to order the world. You will have doubts such as, “Am I being too
hard on him?” “Was this a good idea?” “Did I ruin our marriage?” These
are completely normal thoughts, but you must never share them with your
husband. It will have to be your own private burden. Sharing thoughts of
uncertainty will only insert doubt in his mind and show weakness. His
uncertainty will be twice that of yours, so you must be the guiding hand
for him.
Broaching the Subject
You’ll definitely want to
let him know what’s going on. If he doesn’t, how can he play along?
Remember, you husband wants to be cuckolded. You only need to break the
ice. For example:
Has your husband ever mentioned how you’d feel
about a threesome, swinging, or anything extramarital? This may be a
good place to start if he did. First make your husband really hot in a
way that still allows you to talk to him, like by giving him a hand job.
Once he’s near orgasm ask him, “Hey honey, remember that time you
mentioned having a threesome? Do you still feel the same about it?”
Judge his reaction. His eyes may light up or his heart may start beating faster. He’ll try to hide his excitement of course.
He’ll ask, “Would you really consider it?”
And you can say, “Well I’ve been thinking about it. It might be fun to make some changes.”
or
If you suspect your husband masturbates often, try to catch him in the act. Then you can give him hell.
“Honey,
I’ve had it with you! This is the last time I catch you masturbating.
It’s disrespectful and disgusting. Things are going to be changing
around here!”
These are just a few examples of how to broach
cuckolding with your husband. Note the range in ways. Also note
cuckolding was never mentioned. At this early stage there is no need to
be specific. The only thing you need to be concerned about is the main
message: “Things are going to be changing.” Of all the stories you’ve
read about wives cuckolding their husbands, choose the method you are
most comfortable with.
Being Mean
After you’ve let him
know that things will be changing around the house, you have to follow
through. Remember, he won’t just give you control, you have to take it
from him. Basically you’re going to have to be mean to him. If you were
raised right this will probably not be easy for you. You were taught to
treat everyone with the same respect you wish to have. This is one of
the hardest parts of cuckolding because you’ll be breaking the golden
rule, but once you get used to it, it becomes natural.
Start by
taking aspects of his life away from him. One of the first things you
can do is to take is his identity away. For example, feminize your
husband’s name; Jack can become Jackie, Dan can become Danielle. Or sissyfy his name; Steve can become Stevie, Jack can become Jackie. You’re
main objective is equate him with weakness – historically women and
children. Actually have a conversation with him about this. Let him know
that you will be calling him something new from now on.
Also
don’t let him call you by name anymore. Only equals can call each other
by name. Force him to refer to you as “Mistress” or “Goddess.” When you
ask him a yes or no question, make him respond with “Yes, Mam” or “No,
Mam.” This will help condition him as a subordinate.
On the same
lines, you can call him nicknames like, “Little One” or “Tiny.” And
refer to his penis as a “dicklet.” This will strike his insecurity with
his penis size, and if he never had an insecurity, it will create one.
Other
examples of being mean to your husband are to take his free time away
by giving him chores, his money and possessions away by demanding he be
frugal, and his sex life away by withdrawing sex. Start small, but be
firm. You want him to get used to submitting, and you used to
dominating. For example, make him make the bed every morning from now on
instead of you. Even something as inconsequential as making the bed
will have a submissive effect on him and it will be something to build
on later. For example, when you feel the time is right you can add to
his responsibilities, “Honey, since you’re doing such a great job making
the bed everyday, I’m going to have you clean the entire bedroom every
morning from now on too.”
Take you time being mean. It’s more
important that you are comfortable with the process than the actual
process. You are training yourself to be the beautiful and terrifying
wife whose husband begs to please you. Be strict with the rules you
make. If your husband doesn’t take out the trash let him know your
displeasure. Punish him with real consequences if he messes up.
Punishment
may be many different things depending on your style. You can be
passive aggressive by withdrawing sex. You can be very aggressive and
spank him. You can force him to do something perverted like eating his
own semen. Just make sure you communicate with him at the time of his
infracture that you are displeased with him, and that there will be
consequences.
Being Nice
The beauty of being mean to your
husband isn’t in its direct benefits, but in how it redefines being
nice. Things that used to be normal for him are now special treats. He
used to be able to have sex with you whenever he wanted, but because
you’ve withdrawn sex from him, you’ve made it a rare event – something
to behold. By being constantly mean to you husband, you’ll lower his
standard of what is considered nice.
Use this concept once
you’ve established a baseline of meanness, which will probably take few
weeks. Once being mean has become the norm you can start. For example,
let him know a reward will follow his future good behavior. You can say,
“I’ve decided today that if you’re a good boy all week and do all your
chores, I’ll give you a blowjob at the end of the week.” A blowjob only a
few weeks ago was not worth doing an entire week of chores for, but
because you’re mean now, a blowjob’s value has greatly increased. Being
“nice” like this you give your husband an incentive to follow your rules
– further deepening your control.
It’s all about sticks and
carrots. Reward him for good behavior, punish him for bad, and most
importantly, remind him that he’s lessor to you.
Your Pleasure First
Once
you’ve mastered being mean to him, you can progress to a new lesson.
Train him to subordinate his pleasure to yours. His new reason for being
will be solely to please his mistress. Let him know this. Things like
the new car he was planning on buying make off limits. Nights out with
his friends, no – he has to stay in and clean. Fishing? Nope, he’s got
to do laundry.
Not only will this degrade him, but it will give
you more free time. Take advantage of this and enjoy it! Go to the pool
and relax, go out with your friends at night, go on dates with other
men. You won’t have to worry about the kids anymore because your husband
is watching them. And because you’ve forbidden him from buying that big
ticket item he’s been saving for, go shopping! There’s plenty of money
now, right? This the time to be a hotwife – go for it.
If you
don’t do these things by deciding you’d rather be nice to him, it will
be to your determent. It’s up to you to fill the void of your husband’s
powerlessness. If you only force him not to buy the car, but then don’t
spend the freed money, you’re sending him an incomplete message. Spend
the car money on yourself, and let him know, “I, your wife, don’t care
about your pleasure because mine is more important.” Make sure you fill
the void; you don’t want all your hard work wasted.
Changing the definition of sex
This
lesson is especially important. Definitely no more blowjobs. The
blowjob is the epitome of giving him pleasure. Don’t even have sexual
intercourse with him. Intercourse equates both of your pleasures, not
exactly the message you want to send him either. If he insists on sex,
have him fuck you with your favorite dildo. Make sure to mention how
much bigger it is than his penis and how much you enjoy having a “real
cock” in you. If you absolutely must have sex with him a good idea may
be to make him wear one or two “long lasting” or numbing condoms. This
will greatly reduce his pleasure. The best thing you can turn sex into
is him eating you out, period. You may want to squat on his face and
force him to eat your pussy, or lay on your back and make him beg to eat
you. Either way, he should soon learn what you mean when you say,
“Let’s have sex.” For him, at most, let him masturbate afterwards and
only if he did a good job.
Conditions
From here you can
take things further. A good way to do this is with conditions. A
condition is basically a trade. For example, “Okay, I’ll let you
cum tonight, but you can save it and eat it later,” or
“Alright bitch, I’m going to be nice tonight and let you eat me”. Or you could just promise sexual favors, only to not allow his satisfaction. By using
conditions, you can bring him to higher levels of submission
voluntarily. This is more than worth the momentary pleasure you trade
him.
My hubby, almost always wears a condom.
Once you’ve gotten your hubby to do a degrading act for the
first time with a condition, the subsequent times become much easier.
Let’s say it had been a month since you let you husband stick his dick
in you. Then one night you offered him the chance to fuck you as long as
you got to fuck him afterwards.
He was so desperate to feel your soft,
warm pussy, he jumped at the chance. That night you give him a good cum,
then put on your strap-on dildo and stuck it in his ass for the first
time. You’ve now made it much easier to fuck him in the ass for a 2nd
time by breaking that initial barrier. You probably won’t need to
bargain with him again, just force him. Using a condition at every major
cuckold milestone is recommended. For example, when you bring another
man into the relationship. This is a big step for him, so you’ll have to
coax him along with rewards.
Don’t use conditions forever. They
are just a tool to use in the beginning stages of taming your husband.
After a while you will have amassed so much power, there will be no need
for them. You can just make him do whatever you want. Once you’ve
reached this point using a condition will actually make you look
weaker.
With Great Power comes responsibility! Go Further
Test Him. Sometime around this
point you will have reached a milestone in which you can say you’ve
officially conditioned your husband to be your cuckold. Usually it
occurs after you’ve forced your husband to do something so depraved that
he has no self respect anymore. It may be the night you take his anal
virginity, the night you come home from a bar and make him eat another
man’s cum from your pussy, or the time you force him to suck another
man’s larger penis. All the hard work you have done training yourself
and your husband culminates here.
Turn him into a sissy!
Make him wear your panties for a week!
Hubby agreed, with some reluctance. When he
asked why, I explained, “Well, it isn’t like anyone will know”.
Test him. I tried, and he quickly came around, even going to far
as to buy his own wardrobe. My husband has his own lingerie. But then,
one day, she’d come home with a chastity device and asked her sissy to
let her put it on her.
You will have to make many more
decisions because he has deferred authority to you, his dominatrix. You
have changed his life purpose from the pursuit of happiness to the
pursuit of your happiness; you must give him every opportunity to
fulfill this new mission and he will be grateful to serve you.
Now
relax, you’ve made it! Enjoy the lifestyle perks that cuckolding has to
offer. Live a life of leisure. Have you husband take care of all the
mundane things. Make him do all sorts of nasty and perverted things.
Sleep with other men and bring them home to play. Whatever you choose to
do with your cuckold, enjoy the luxury of having the choice…:)
Now
that you’ve cuckolded your husband, your job as Mistress is only
beginning. From now on you have full control and you’ll need to use it.
Your husband will need a strong hand to guide him. You’ll be telling him
what to wear, what to eat, and how to spend him time and his money. His
only purpose will be to serve to you. Here are some ideas on how to
keep up the dominance.
Semen
On the surface your
husband’s semen can seem like an annoyance. It’s messy, it tastes bad,
and it stains linens. But actually it is a great tool for dominating
him. The most common way to use it is to force him to eat it. Normally
after a man ejaculates he wants to just relax and not think. He wants
nothing to do with sex for a while. So having him deal with his cum
after an orgasm is something unnatural to him. He absolutely won’t want
to do it. Therefore it will require a command from you and an act of
submission from him – great practice for more advanced cuckolding. This
is great training since he will be doing many more “unnatural” things
later.
Do this by making the rule, “From now, on every time you
cum, you have to eat your semen.” If you let him jackoff, make him lick
it up. If he’s wearing a condom, pour its contents into his mouth. If he
cums in your pussy, make him eat a creampie. You can get creative too,
like making him cum in a glass then drink it at dinner. Or save each one
of his cums in the freezer to eventually make a cumsicle for him.
He
doesn’t have to necessarily eat it either. If you really feel like
humiliating him, you can make him cum all over his face and then not let
him wash for a while. As his semen slowly dries on his face, he’ll
become uncomfortable and wish he had never cum.
Another related
rule to make is that you no longer want his cum touching you. Say, “It’s
dirty”. The contrast of him eating and wearing his own cum while you
refuse to even touch it will speak volumes. You’re obviously too good
for his lowly seed.
His Penis
Another seeming headache for
you will be you husband’s penis. It’s small, it cums too fast, and it
doesn’t give you pleasure. If you’re smart though, it can be a useful
tool in humiliating him.
Feel free to openly make fun of his
penis. Call it demeaning nicknames like “Dicklette,” or “Pee-pee.” Don’t
call him by his real name either, refer to him by his penis, like,
“Come here, Tiny”. Let him know constantly that you think his cock is
inadequate. Contrast this to praising your dildo. Let him be in the room
with you as you masturbate with it. Let him know how good it feels to
be fucked by a “real cock.” Make sure to cum real hard on it. After
you’re finished pleasuring yourself, show him you used and pussy and
tell him, “This is what my pussy looks like after a real cock has been
in it.” Then make him lick the dildo clean and to treat it like a holy
object.
He will always want to be using his penis too, either by
fucking you or by pleasing himself. It will be easy to deny him sex, but
him secretly masturbating will be a problem. If you let your husband
masturbate, he won’t crave for your pussy and therefore the sexual power
you have over him will be reduced. His release must be only through
you. Forbid any self pleasure. Let him know that his penis is your
property and that he’s not allowed to sexually touch it without your
permission. Definitely realize that he will masturbate no matter what
you do unless you put him in a cock cage.
Be openly
suspicious about his masturbation. Constantly ask him if he’s jerked off
and let him know that you’re on the watch for mischief. Also don’t be
afraid to spy on him to make sure he is obeying you, even if you don’t
suspect anything. Men are notorious for hiding masturbation. Setup a
secret camera pointing at the computer, buy a program that will track
all websites he visits, even look through the trash for sticky tissues.
If you catch him, severely punish him. Masturbation is explicitly
prohibited, his penis belongs to you and he is not allowed to use it.
Lock Him Up
A
cock cage is a chastity device that denies a man the ability to become
erect, though he can still urinate and wear normal clothing. Most look
like a cage that locks around the penis. It’s impossible
to keep your husband from masturbating without one, even if you could
watch him 24/7. Men, if horny enough, can masturbate in seconds. You’d
never know. In order for you to completely control your husband’s
sexuality you’ll need this device.
Once he’s in one, you
should control the key by at the very least hiding it. A great idea
though is to keep the cage’s key on you at all times as a necklace. The
symbol of your dominance, right there, dangling in his face, is a great
way to taunt him. If anyone asks about it, you can say your hubby gave
it to you as the “key to his heart”. Let him out for a cum every 7-10
days if he’s been good and 15-30 days if he’s been bad. Don’t keep him
locked up forever. The point of a cage is control, not torture.
Your Pussy
While
you are busy making your husband’s penis inconsequential, you should be
doing the opposite with your pussy. Let him know the new center of his
universe will be your vagina. His life should revolve around pleasuring
it. He will be eating your pussy constantly and let him know it. Even if
you don’t feel horny have him lick your pussy. Have him talk to it,
compliment it, and explain why it’s so beautiful. After a long day out
have him soak it and caress it. When you come back from the gym shove
his face into it for a good long whiff. Let him know you’ll no longer be
using an alarm clock because you expect his tongue on you every
morning.
The contrast of how he treats your pussy (the alter on
which he worships you) to the way you treat his dick (something useless
and to be forgotten about) will speak volumes.
Strap-ons
A
strap-on penis can be a great tool to use while cuckolding your
husband. Nothing quite says, “You’re my bitch” like fucking him hard in
the ass. Buy one that you are comfortable with then bring it home and
show your husband. Tell him, “Since I’m man of the house now, I figure I
should have a penis to fuck you with.” Prepare him with butt plugs for a
few days before to make him ready for a sizable one. Let him cum when
you’re fucking him, at least for the first few times. Even encourage it.
You want him to equate getting fucked by you, i.e. being your bitch, to
being a pleasurable experience. When you fuck him, make sure you use
lube.
If you really have a need to get fucked, you can put the
strap-on on him, over his penis. Then you can either ride him or have
him on top. Doing this will satisfy you while driving him completely
insane because all the other sensations of sex will be there. He’ll be
able to smell the sex in the air, he’ll feel your hot body, and sense
the passion in your orgasms, but he won’t be able to feel anything down
there. This will leave him extremely horny and frustrated.
The bathroom
Of
course the house is now your domain, but this is one area you might
have forgotten about. Allow him absolutely no privacy. Require him to
keep the door fully open at all times when he is in there. If you have
opaque shower curtains, get clear ones. Make him pee sitting down like a
woman. If he takes a shit, make him apologize for the smell and if he
doesn’t apologize before you have smelled it, punish him. If you’re
feminizing him, he should be shaving in your full view.
Future lovers
One
of the more challenging aspects of bringing home another man is picking
the right one. Try to pick a man that is younger, good-looking, and
more well-endowed than your husband. You want him to struggle with some
jealousy. Before you chose one, sample a few. Inspect not only their
obvious traits like penis size, strength, and stamina, but also their
personalities. He should be physically more prow than your
husband in all ways and you should enjoy having sex with him.
When you select your lover (Your hubby can help), relish in him. Make sure he knows you are enjoying him, and most especially, make sure your hubby knows you are enjoying your stud! Do something to show your prowlness. Worship his cock, and make sure everyone knows you are to be worshiped!
Always keep hubby guessing. When you go out, allude to your husband that you’ll be fucking
someone else, but don’t actually say it. Say, “I’m going out tonight
with some friends, I might not be back till late…” When you don’t come
back until late, or not at all, his imagination will run wild. All sorts
of emotions will run through him, concern, anger, lust, helplessness,
etc… While you are out on the town flirting and dancing with other men,
your husband will be at home in a state of mental anguish.
Before
you actually bring another man home though, you’ll have to let you
husband in on what’s been going on. Though don’t have a conversation
with him about it – show him. Have your hair be a mess, and your clothes on
wrong. If he asks, feel free to tell him, “Oh that’s from my new
boyfriend. He’s a little rough”, but deflect any questions he has about
specifics. Then after a while come home late one night, wake him up, and
force him to lick your stretched pussy. He’ll know immediately what
you’ve been up to, but will not have time to think about it because your
pussy will be right in front of his face. He’ll have no choice but to
eat you. Once he’s gotten used to that, bring home your pussy filled
with cum. Taking these steps will get your husband used to your
infidelity and make it less of a shock when you finally bring a lover
home.
Once you finally bring him home, introduce your hubby to
him as your boyfriend. By now your husband should know everything about
your boyfriend and what you’ve been doing. Let your husband know that he
is to be respectful at all times when your boyfriend is here and to do
anything he says. Let your hubby know, “Tonight a real man will be
fucking me, not you”. For the first couple times, go to the bedroom with
your lover and lock out your husband. Make sure you are noisy though.
Having him comfortable with the sounds of you being fucked will make it
easier for when he has to watch. He might even begin to anticipate
watching you.
When you finally let him watch, do all sorts of
nasty things with your lover that you’d never do with your husband.
Worship your bull’s penis, voraciously suck it, deepthroat him, comment
on its size and how much larger it is than your husband’s. Let him fuck
you roughly, let him cum inside you, give him your ass. Transform
yourself into the slut your husband can’t have and let him know that
this all could have been him, but he willingly gave up his chance like
an idiot.
Keep your husband actively involved in his own
humiliation. Make him beg your lover to fuck you. Make him suck your
lover hard or have him put your lover’s dick in your pussy. Talk to him
too, like, “Oh he’s so much bigger than you,” or “This is how a real man
fucks your wife”. Whenever your husband is idle, don’t let him touch
his penis, a good way to do this is to make him sit on his hands. Once
your lover is finally finished with you, have your husband clean the
juices off his penis with his tongue. Have him thank your bull for the
great fucking he just gave you. Then make him crawl to you and clean up
your used pussy….
He can take Cock Too
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