Male chastity may be thought of as a way to prevent a male from engaging in sexual activity without the permission of its dominant, who acts as “keyholder.”
There’s a lot to male chastity – the
most important part is to be safe and be consensual! Don’t take this as a
how-to!
Also, this isn’t a guide on how to PICK a male chastity device or wear one. I can’t give you that information.
I can’t even wear a male chastity device, so wtf do I know at the end of the day?
How does Male Chastity Work?
The male wears a device which will prevent sexual activity such as penetration, masturbation, and oral sex involving its genitals.
The most common device is the “tube” or “cage.” It has a ring seated around the base of the male’s penis, behind its scrotum, and a tube or cage
that holds the penis inside it. It’s designed so that the male’s penis cannot be
stimulated directly. An erection will generally be very uncomfortable or even impossible. Some designs are super short so that the penis can be squeezed to restrict it
even more than usual. Most designs have an opening at the head of the penis, but some designs are completely sealed.
Another type of male chastity device is the “belt.” This type of device is much less common and resembles a female chastity belt. Here, a belt encircles the waist and a shield is attached
to the front of it. The shield extends downwards to cover
the male’s genitals and a penis tube is secured behind the front of the shield. In some designs, the male’s testes are covered by special cages as well.
In either case, male chastity devices are locked with a padlock so that they cannot be removed. The goal is to turn it into a long-term situation where the male is locked up and only released occasionally.
So Why Wear a Male Chastity Device?
The most common argument is that chastity ensures a male becomes a
better sexual partner (as if that were possible, pfft…). By
restricting access to its genitals, chastity encourages the male to pay
more attention to its partner. Without a penis to get in the way of sex,
the male can focus better and dedicate all of its attention to pleasing
its partner. If it succeeds,
it
might be released from chastity for some stimulation as a reward. If it
fails, it’ll remain in chastity and become increasingly frustrated.
Another
argument is that it’s just the right thing to do. That if a male isn’t
performing well, or can’t perform well, it deserves to be locked up in
chastity. The male’s penis is too small? It’ll be locked up! Can’t bring its partner any pleasure? It’ll be locked up. Want a laugh? It’ll be locked up. The opposite of the
above, it is more of a punishment than an incentive. The male will be
punished for its behaviour and abilities rather than encouraged to be
better. In this case it’s more likely that the male won’t be unlocked
for rewards that often either. It’ll almost always be frustrated!
But the male’s sexual frustration is still good! Don’t worry! An
increasingly horny male means that it’ll work harder for its release. A
good keyholder will recognize this and use it to their advantage by
voicing their needs, making demands, and exploiting the male’s
frustration for results. They don’t have to be mean and brutal about it
though, and they don’t have to be exploiters either. Most keyholders are
loving and caring actually
What’s in it for her? More pleasure!
What’s in it for him? Less (or no) pleasure!
How to make Male Chastity (more) Fun?
Male chastity can be fun on both ends of the key, but things can always be improved! Here are some things to consider about how you can make male chastity even more fun (or at the very least entertaining)!
Tease and Denial & Edging…
Tease and denial usually involves stimulating the male’s genitals until orgasm is almost inevitable and then stopping or reducing
stimulation to keep it on the brink of orgasm without allowing
it to ejaculate. Doing so repeatedly is considered “edging” and can be tortuous for a male. Typically, tease and denial is done when released from chastity, but it can also be done while the male is still in chastity. You can rub against the cage, suck on it or masturbate it, etc.
Even just rubbing the device can be enough to edge a male, though my favourite is oral teasing.
Ruined Orgasms…
You can also turn male chastity rewards into “ruined orgasms.” This itself is a really complex topic, so maybe I’ll write a post about it another time. Again, the male’s genitals are stimulated to the very brink of
orgasm and the stimulation is stopped abruptly. Usually it’s done extremely slow and over a long period of time. If orgasm
happens after stimulation has stopped, it will be
much less intense and satisfying than usual. Ideally there will be no sensation and ejaculation will be more like a dribble.
The male will be drained of his sperm, but will still be extremely aroused and can even still be stimulated. This is why it
is called a ruined orgasm. A male can still orgasm while in chastity but it won’t be as satisfying either, so bringing it to orgasm while locked up can be extremely aggravating.
Strapons & Pegging…
And just because the male is locked up doesn’t mean that penetration isn’t possible! For starters, the keyholder has complete discretion over when the male is locked/unlocked. If they want its penis inside of them, then that’s their call and they can unlock it whenever they want. Still, you can leave a male locked up and simply make it wear a strapon instead. Replacing a male’s penis with a strapon for penetration is not only a mind-fuck for it but can be handy because you can pick a better size and shape than what it has. The keyholder can also peg their male with a strapon while it’s in chastity.
Cuckolding…
Cuckolding and male chastity sort of go hand in hand because male chastity heightens the cuckold’s inability to be sexually active while the keyholder is free to do as they please. Whether left at home in chastity or brought along to watch but left unable to participate, chaste male can make a good cuckold. The fact that its in chastity might increase the keyholder/cuckoldress’ pleasure.
In the end
In the end, be safe, be smart, and be consensual! Don’t take this as a how-to guide or a suggestion to perform such activities!
But at the very least, lock that little thing up!
Basically, if you want to change your male, lock his cock up, that will get his mind in the right place to change his ways. All the rest of this list are nice to do’s, if that’s the way you want to go.
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Wow! This is fantastic. Also completely realistic.
Thank You so much for all the awesome insights.
Paul