As a woman contemplating this new dynamic in your relationship, you must understand that the single most important component to making this work to your advantage is having your male put in a chastity device.

Men will cheat and masturbate behind your back, and the honor system will not work.  If you want to give this lifestyle a try, you need to put him chastity.  Period.  The length of time for you between orgasms for him is entirely up to the two of you.  You will read varying opinions on this subject but the only right answer is what works for you and your partner.

Having your male in chastity does not mean no sex in between release dates.  It simply means no orgasms for the man until you feel like it.  This part of the control is what starts to get women excited about this lifestyle, however, it may take a bit for you to get used to it.  After you see the results of a chastised male and how his affection, attention, and compliance becomes stronger with each day, you will wish you had done this before.

There are many chastity devices to choose from, but here we have put together the best ones for the price.  We are a retailer of PREMIUM sex toys related to femdom, and have partnered with the largest sex toy retailers in North America.  So our prices are competitive, and more importantly, the items we recommend on this site we have personally tested and approve to move into this lifestyle.

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