There are many things you can do to participate in a femdom marriage, but there is only 1 requirement.  COMPLETE submission.

Whether your partner knows about your “submissive fantasies” or not, you can start towards this relationship by becoming completely compliant, and obedient to your spouse.

So for this post, I  am going to separate your actions into 2 different scenarios.

If you are married and your partner does not know about your submissive fantasies

Here is a list of things you can do to start progressing towards your flr.  Don’t worry about the sex part yet.  You must first do these things and they must be because you love her and not because you want something out of it.  We are going to create a scenario of much more acceptance of your fantasies by first teaching you how to be a good husband.

1. Stop watching porn altogether.  She knows and it hurts.
2. Stop all masturbation.  Reserve your sexual energy to direct to her.
3. Offer to do more housework, and ask how you can help.
4. Offer her daily backrubs and massages.
5. Offer to paint her toenails.
6. Never argue with her.  What she says is law.

Just these 6 things will help set the stage for transforming your life into femdom relationship also known as D/S relationship Dominant/Submissive with your partner being the dominant.

If she asks you anything about why you are doing all of these things you never did before, do not reveal anything about your fantasies just yet.  Simply say that you realize how much you love her, and you want to become a better husband.  Make this intention, and never pressure her into anything.

If you are married and your partner knows about your “submissive fantasies”

Here is a list of things you should have but the actions in the previous category still apply:

1. chastity device
2. spanking tools
3. buttplug
4. strap on dildo
5. dildos (non phallic or phallic)

It is your job let your partner know that you wish to be chastised permanently and to be released only when your partner deems fit.  All the other tools and implements will be at the discretion of your partner.

Confess your masturbation to her, and how much porn you watch, and that you want to stop and by locking you up in chastity, this will help.

If you wish your partner to do things to you that are uncomfortable for them, then you must be patient and not push the matter.  Keep on being submissive.  The more submissive you are, the more dominant traits in your partner will come out.

NEVER push you partner past the pace that is comfortable for them.  This will always backfire on you.