First off, what is milking the prostate?

This is when you stimulate the prostrate through anal penetration with anything that will reach the male prostrate.  There are prostate massagers available on the internet, and ebay can be a good place to find them.

A prostate massager usually will have a curve to it, so that after penetration it curves towards the prostrate to make direct stimulation.

You can also use dildos, vibrators, or other sex toys for this purpose.

Is it dangerous?

It can be, but in most cases no.  What you want to avoid is rigorous pounding.  This is called a prostate massage for a reason.  It is to “massage” the prostrate, not to pound the hell out of it.  Rigorous pounding can damage the prostrate, and even in some cases result in death

Before milking the prostate, you need to be aware of the following precautions:

• Prostate milking requires very careful manipulation.  Otherwise, the action can cause perforation of the thin prostate gland, which can result in permanent damage to the prostate.
• ŸMen suffering from acute prostatis should not utilize prostate massage because it can result in blood poisoning. However, those with chronic prostatis are able to use massage safely.
• Milking can also cause hemorrhoid problems,such as periprostatic hemorrhage. Excessive internal milking can also irritate the lining of the rectum and trigger development of hemorrhoids. If you have hemorrhoids or are concerned about developing them, you should speak with your doctor before milking.
• ŸMen with prostatic calculiare are at risk for tearing or scratching the membrane of the prostate gland if they milk their prostate. Prostatic calculi are small, gritty stones that form in the prostate gland and milking would cause the stones to rub against the tender gland.
• ŸMen suffering from prostate cancer should avoid milking because it can causes cancer cells to spread to other parts of the body.

Why this is important in a femdom relationship

• anal penetration of your male partner is a way to “psychologically” dominate him in addition to the physical
• prostate milking will release semen in a slow method which is very healthy and even necessary if he is in chastity.  Built up semen that does not get released can actually be harmful to the prostate.
• releasing semen in this manner does have the same effect as ejaculation as far as health goes, but does not carry the pleasure of orgasm.  This is a great way to give your man release without orgasm to keep him under your control.

Do It Face to Face for Greater Intimacy

Step 1: Find a comfortable position

After the receiver has completely undressed, he should be in a seated position. His back should be supported by a large and firm pillow, and his back should be reclined. He should pull his knees towards his chest and angle somewhat outwards.

Step 2: Proper position for the giver

This position should be comfortable for the receiver and also enable the giver to have unfettered access to and unobstructed view of the genitals and anus. The giver can kneel or sit cross-legged in front of the receiver.

Step 3: Start with lower body massage

As a method of relaxation, the receiver’s lower extremities may be massaged by the giver. The receiver may decide to close his eye to relax. As the massage goes into its progressive stages, it is vital that both the giver and receiver maintain eye contact.

Step 4: Put on latex glove and lubricate

The giver will decide whether the receiver has been sufficiently aroused and relaxed. Next, the giver should slip on a latex glove and then lubricate the anus of the receiver. The process of lubricating the anus should be ceremonial and lengthy. As the giver, start with some circular motions as you stroke the opening of the anus. The idea here is to relax and pleasure the nervous ‘rosebud’.

Step 5: Work the way in gently

As the giver, you should “never“ use your finger to poke the receiver’s anus. You should instead gently apply some pressure using your finger’s pad. Also, continuously add the lubrication as you can never have too much lubrication. Gently insert your finger when the receiver’s anus is ready. All you need is patience and time.

Notes: Amazingly, when the anus is ready, the receiver will notice that the giver’s finger seems to be pulled in by the anus. Once the finger has entered, the giver should still give the anal sphincters time to get accustomed to the finger intrusion. Therefore, the giver should not immediately proceed to move the finger out and in. The only reason the giver should remove the finger is to add some lubrication jelly.

Step 6: Locate and massage the prostate

• ŸDo this by crooking the finger upwards. When you feel a “roundish” oblong protrusion located 2 inches in the rectum, you will have found it.
• ŸApply pressure to it to produce various sensations. The most desirable of all sensations is that of imminent ejaculation. By applying less or more pressure to the gland, the giver is able to control the sensations.
• The penis can be massaged by the receiver or the giver to the point where the receiver is almost ejaculating. The varying pressure applied on the prostate will keep the ejaculation sensation on a brink.

Step 7: Move rhythmically and maintain eye contact

When in the arousal cycle, the giver can start rhythmically moving the finger out and in. This will stimulate the super sensitive nerve endings that surround the anus. When the experience is at the resolution phase, eye contact is important. When in this phase, there are a number of scenarios that may take place:

A. The receiver will masturbate without the help of the receiver to ejaculate. At this time, the giver will be encouraging the receiver until he reaches climax and ejaculates.

B. The giver will help the receiver masturbate using one hand. The other hand of the receiver will still be massaging the receiver’s prostrate or anal opening. Both receiver and giver should intently communicate. This communication enables the receiver to get the greatest pleasure.

C. The receiver could ask the giver to milk his prostate without stimulating the penis directly. To do this, the giver gently strokes each lobe which results in the gentle flow of the semen.

The Facing Away Position

The “facing away” position requires the receiver to be kneeling with knees apart, the buttocks elevated and the elbows resting on a surface. The receiver should be in a comfortable and stable position.

The giver should kneel or sit spread legged behind the receiver. That way, the receiver has a perfect view of and easy access to the anus. This position also allows the giver to reach in between the legs of the receiver thus allowing genital stimulation.