our own brand of femdom #2

In a FemDom relationship… getting the strap-on is not an option.

He’ll scream like a little bitch the first few times. All of that’s very normal. But just keep at it. Your goal is to make it a very normal part of his experience. After a while some pretty wonderful things will start to happen. His selfish, argumentative masculine edge will dissipate. He will become much more cooperative and attentive to your needs. His submissive side will come out and blossom. He will become much less concerned with his orgasms, and more focused on yours. His erogenous zone will slowly start to shift from the head of his penis to the opening to his asshole and his prostate gland. It is therefore very important to make sure your partner receives a good fuck session for every time he pleases you orally. For a male to submit to anal sex with a woman wearing a strap-on dildo can be a genuine expression of romance. In bending over he shows that he trusts her. He discards spurious male pride. She introduces him to the pleasure of his prostrate. He will come to realize this is a gift. For a man to move to the bottom in penetrative sex serves as a good first or at least early stage of submission.

Momentous occasion #3

He discovers tits rubbing on his back and moaning in his ears makes his cock hard.

I want to just confirm from the male perspective that all of these statements are factual!!! Thank you Miss Lara for opening my eye’s to accept mind, body and soul the truth. While femdom encompasses many fetishes, not all fetishes are for every femdom couple. You have to decide what applies to your relationship, or what you want from a femdom relationship. We are all individual’s so you have to find out what turns your wife or girlfriend on! I like dominate sex positions, pegging, giving and receiving oral, orgasm control, being generally bossy an owning my Tony. Tony needs to exhibit his own self control to show me he loves me and he does good with this, we have developed a way to incentivize his self control.

1. Do asstrabation if you get excited!

2. If you jerk it you eat it. Though if you wait for me to make you cum it will be worth your wait.

3. Make me video either way. I will critique him in a nonjudgemental way.

4. I check his erection, balls, thongs dailey Tony has some amazing self control now.

6. cFnm, Tony is required to be nude from the waist down while at home

Honestly, I can say Tony was easy to dominate from the beginning. When we met over 5 years ago now he hated pubic hair and used a epilator and waxed. He only had thong underwear in his drawers. He did more listening than talking, very easy to talk to. We have a wonderful relationship now.

If I need to put a cage around your cock to keep you from your self or anyone else you don’t love me or appreaciate the love I give you or you are a teenaged boi either way you would not be my man, however I do understand and can appreaciate a man wanting to feel/be owned. Here is a suggestion get a permanent marker write your name on his cock!!! Then your man is your biggest competition for your dick! Buy a testicle leash, make him wear it until bedtime then wrap your hand around your testicles and hold them while you sleep. If you want minute morning sex ladies this will do it if he can make it to sleep at all

I don’t want another lover 1 man is more than enough work an I suspect other femdom women feel this way too. I cannot speak for all women but lets be real for a minute, cucking is a fetish about male shortcomings hence a male desire, not what I want.

If you want to be physically assaulted I am willing as long as it does not take any extra energy, I work and have a life so I need my energy for all things productive.

I hope you enjoy my real perspective on flr and femdom

Ericka