Outed to Mistress Violet!

It’s true! First time ever. Outed!!!! Though person doing the “outing” is very responsible and will be discrete, I am positive. This is how it happened and what the fallout will be.

I received the following email the other day to my strictjulie account:

Dear Julie,

A while back (about two weeks now) I was turned onto your blog by a regular client of mine. He’s been a fan of yours for quite some time, but I had never before come across the blog myself.

I admit that I was sucked in by the kinky adventures as well as the writing style, and found myself glued to the pages as I scrolled along. After reading I did locate a couple of entries that seemed uncannily similar to experiences that I myself have had, with a married couple named ████ and ████. I have read and re-read these entries and I am absolutely assured with the fullest of my being that these scenes are scenes that I myself helped craft and execute. The photos of yourself also speak to the encounters with the couple that I recall.

I find myself surprised, delighted, irritated, amused, taken aback – a mix of emotions that will work themselves out over time into something more clear. In order to sort through some of my feelings about appearing on the blog without any kind of recognition, I am requesting another meeting. I have an idea of what I would like to do – this time to “Julie” as well as ████ – but welcome your input as well.

~ Mistress Violet ~

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Mistress Violet is a Toronto-based Pro Domme that david and I have played with twice in the past. Here are some photos from her web site.

Isn’t she gorge?!? She’s the best david and I have ever played with. So intelligent, such a great actress for our scenes, so incredibly kinky, enjoys a wide variety of activities, and genuinely enjoys her job! She works out of her own clean, discrete, very well-equipped studio, suitable for dungeon-type scenes, medical fetish play, domestic scenes, and whatever else your kinky mind desires! If you’re looking for a fun time, reach out to her and tell her Julie sent you. You will definitely not be disappointed.

For our scenes we went by our real names which is how she knows us (hence my blocking out of our names above). We did that, of course, so as not to make the connection with my Julie persona. But yes, she had absolutely found us out. Guilty as charged. And she had clearly read all my innermost thoughts about our scenes together from my blog (where I admitted to having a bit of a girl-crush on her – blush blush blush!).

The scenes she referred to are as follows.

The first one was Anal training in front of wife and friend, published March, 2015. I was frisky and went looking for a Pro Domme to roleplay a young woman assisting me in david’s anal training regime (so he could take my big dildo). It was a favourite scene and became the basis of Chapter 9 of my book.

We played with her a second time as well, a year later, as described in Playtime Happened. In this one david played her daddy, and I played david’s young second wife. In the scene, I encouraged his daughter to “come out” to him that she was a Pro Domme. Much kinkyness ensued. Before the scene, I fibbed, telling her it was my birthday, and got some birthday spanks from both david and she. At the end of the scene, ice having been broken, she and I got it on a bit as well while david jerked off beneath us.

Despite a slight change of venue for the first, these scenes went down pretty much exactly as I described (to the very best of my recollection). They were both incredibly wild. In fact, I was hankering for another encounter with her when the email came through.

And of course, she is likely reading every word I write here, which serves to keep me very honest! I wrote back to her as follows:

Hi Violet,

Yes, you are right of course, I am she and those were the scenes we did together. I am sooo sooo sorry that I blogged about them without your permission. I guess I did not think I would get caught! Every bad girls’ excuse? I think I need a good spanking! ;-)

I feel very “naked”, you having read all my innermost thoughts and fantasies. NOBODY else has done that who knows me in real life! I think you have me at a disadvantage!

If you wouldn’t mind please not connecting my real name and other email to “Julie”, I am trying to stay anonymous for obvious reasons I am sure you well understand. As well, crazy as it seems, David does not know about my blog (to the best of my knowledge). If it was naughty hiding it from you, imagine how much more so from David!

That having been said, would love to book another three-way session with you. I am scared and eager all at once when you say you have an idea of what you want to do to “Julie” as well as David!!! Same rate as last time is ok?

I will tell my husband that I contacted you to line up another session. He will like that! I’ll let him know that we discussed you Domming the both of us… he will like that even more!

If you absolutely have to (she says hopefully) you can tell David that a little turnabout is good for a Domme’s soul. I will understand it to be my penance for taking such liberties as publishing our scene without your consent!

“Julie”

This is all very true. While david and I have played with many different women, none of them (not my sister, not Tracy, not his trainers, not even david himself!) know about my blog. And, of course, I have tens of thousands of blog readers, none of whom have ever met me in real life (or at least, connected me to Julie!). This lovely lady is the first person who has and will see me in person, and also has read my blog, and knows that me is she, and she is me! Oh my.

She wrote back,

Dearest Julie,

Of course, your identity is safe with me – I respect and fully understand the need for anonymity. I am completely taken aback that David does not know about your blog. So much of your real (and imagined?) sex life is so very public, I can only imagine the shame and humiliation, not to mention the titillation he would feel if he were to find out.

You mentioned a couple of times that you “deserve a spanking” and doing penance for writing about our sessions. I don’t think I’m reading too much into things when I say that it will be my delight to co-top David when you come to visit next, but then I also intend to fully turn the tables on you…

The rate is the same. Let me know when you would like to book an appointment.

~ Mistress Violet ~

Oh gosh. Oh golly. be-still-my-fluttering-heart!!!! But what’s with the “and imagined?” part? You just can’t win in this game. Here is a lady that actually took part in what are two of the craziest ever scenes (and you can even go ask her now), and even she is a doubting Tomasina! Oh well. Here is how I replied:

Hi Violet,

I wouldn’t mind that… the table-turning I mean… (blush!)
I’ll check with David on dates and get back ASAP!
May I please blog? And is it ok to include a link to you and photos?

Julie

And her response,

You have my permission to blog about our interaction, and to link to and use pictures of your choosing from my website.

~ Mistress Violet ~

So I was able to link to her and include photos! Please don’t bug her with emails unless you wish to book a session. You can “tweet” her I suppose, and leaving a comment here is something I am sure she will see as well.

Here she is again to jog your memory (so pretty!).

Our emails went on and we arranged a date for week after this. I am not 100% sure what I am getting myself into! Certainly we will co-top david together. Get his bottom nice and rosy red between the two of us. It is more the turning of the tables that I am nervous about. I am pretty sure I will get a spanking while david watches. She has my husband there and can play Ken-and-Barbie dolls with us, certainly. Bend me over and have him use his cock on me! And… I know she has a big red strap-on dildo herself. She would certainly use that on david, right? Surely not on me!?! She couldn’t! She wouldn’t! Not while my husband watches!!! I’ve never had to be fucked like that… not by a woman… not with a strap-on…

As a courtesy, I will let Mistress Violet know I’ve posted this. I am sure she will be reading comments, so if any of you have any suggestions for her, now is your chance…