I’ve seen something disturbing in some relationships.  I see some women want to exercise femdom and female supremacy  chastity and denial by simply ignoring his little cock.  Chastity and denial is a great tool, but any fine tool can be used or abused.

Chastity will create a deeper, more intimate relationship, and help transform him and his demeanor, but left on its own, it is like lots of sun without water for your plants.  It will dry things out and make a brittle relationship.

Using this analogy, you also need water, which is teasing and sexual attention toward him.  When he is in chastity, bring out your most sexy attire, or buy new things that strain his caged cock.  Bring incredible sexy newness into your bedroom (or kitchen, or great room, or…)

Some women argue that you should just deny him, and since he is locked up safe, why bother with any sexuality?  Isn’t that what denial is?  Yes and no.

Here is my take and experience on femdom related to this matter.  Men can spend their work day making high profile decisions that could make, lose or spend many thousands of dollars or even to the tune of millions.  The stakes are high, and they are in charge and responsible for great success in a highly competitive and changing market.  They make hiring and firing decisions that impacts lives and families.  The weight is immense.  They come home, and may have family to also have to lead.

I’ve seen men drawn to femdom, because they just want some release.  There are so many boxes that they have to take charge and bear the weight, that they want a large box where they don’t have to be in charge.  They can be submissive, and simply follow instructions.

Some women are in this camp as well, making just as high profile decisions.

Sending him to that high profile job in chastity and panties is a risk…  what if he gets caught?  That risk is all part of a larger game that gives him some submissive rest while he still leads strongly.  Not sure if that makes sense, but it seems to work well.

If that chastity and denial doesn’t also include the reward of tease, it’s all drudgery and punishment, and he will lose the edge that makes him want to submit his most vulnerable parts and secrets to you.  It is a shared experience that requires more than just a safe to hold his key.  Let him know you have the power to get the key, and smother his cock cage in you breasts.  The tease makes his denial desirable.  Drive him wild, and when he is released, he will be so amazed at his sexy mistress that another chasity sentence is greatly desired.

Tease is the secret sauce that wraps him around your finger, because it makes his submission like a cool pond in a dry desert.

Just my take on this…  Am I right or wrong?

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