iamsubmissiveproud:

Ignore all the BS you find on tumblr about the rules you are supposed to follow in order to live this lifestyle.  First off, I believe 9 times out of 10 those rules were written by a male…so the purpose is to fulfill that individual’s Femdom pornographic fantasy of what a FLR is (which is going to differ from reality).  How do you spot the crap?  Anytime a rule says that the Female MUST do this or the Male MUST do that.  As a couple, find what works for you, today.  You can always adjust when necessary.  Interests and intentions are going to change over time.  As you progress, you will find what works and what doesn’t.  It’s fine to look for suggestions but don’t follow ANY individual’s set of rules as gospel.  There is no one size fits all in any type of successful loving relationship.  Some Females have no interest incorporating chastity or

physical punishment as a form of disciplining their husbands or having a sexual relationship outside of marriage.  To say that a Female MUST do these things in order for their FLR to succeed is just wrong.  I’m not trying to show disrespect to any Female that believes these things.  I’m saying what may have worked for you, may not work for anyone else.  If you are truly interested in helping other couples succeed, how about simply providing suggestions for living this AMAZING lifestyle and/or how to avoid certain pitfalls.  Maybe tell your own story.    

IGNORE THE “RULES”!  MAKE YOUR FLR YOUR OWN!  Just my own suggestion.   

charlie


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“Rules” For Living In A Female Led Relationship
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