I read a science article recently on Big Think about childhood bullying. Most of it was irrelevant to my blog but one statistic caught my eye. Of the 3,600 people studied, 1,257 admitted as children to have systematically bullied one or more other children. That’s 35%.

Why do I raise this?

Well I often attempt to help hesitant but enthusiastic wives and girlfriends of submissive males become dominant and also sadistic. I go into some detail on this topic in my BDSM manual and point out that cruelty, taking pleasure from inflicting physical or mental pain, (sadism), takes the intensity of emotions up for both the Domme and the sub. In a nutshell, the sub feels utterly dominated and controlled  because there is much more power exerted by inflicting gratuitous sadism than by simply giving orders to have chores done, etc. And a greater power rush for the Domme for the same reason.

In my manual, and often on this blog, I point out that gratuitous bouts of bullying happen in packs in the animal world as a way of issuing reminders of hierarchical position in the pack. Lions, chimps, etc. And I believe from this, through evolution, bullying is innate in humans. Given it is clear that the power rush of sadism releases endorphins and endorphin releases only ever come from innate reward systems. Sadism does however conflict with conditioning as a child – that being mean is wrong and bad. The wives and girlfriends I try to help are fettered by that past conditioning.

It seems to me that the research to which I refer shows that an amazing 35% of children do get past that conditioning. I think that supports my contention that bullying is innate.

I will mention the incorrect platitudes so often spouted by society because society is ashamed of the extent of childhood bullying that exists. Bullies are cowards. Hmmm, rarely so I am afraid. Bullies are unintelligent. Again this is not often the case. Bullies come from ‘broken’ families. Rarely true.

Finally I must stress that I truly hate and abhor the extent of childhood bullying and would love that it did not exist. Like many Dommes I am full of compassion for those in the world under any form of tyranny, (except true submissives who need it to be whole). Perhaps society should face up to the realities rather than making up falsehoods if the terrible extent of childhood bullying is to be addressed. Bullies are generally not cowards, are often intelligent, they most often come from good homes, they get endorphin rushes when they bully and bullying is innate and natural.

 

 

 

 

 


Source: Ms Scarlet


Sadism and power-rush pleasure is natural!
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