peggingdiva:

Hey there fellas. I thought it was due time to get a little female perspective in this sausage fest. As you can tell by my blog, I love pegging my husband. He’s pretty much the luckiest man on the face of the planet. He gets pegged at least once a week, most weeks he gets it much more than that. (No, I will not peg you, don’t even ask)

Newsflash: I didn’t always love it. In fact, I seriously disliked it at first. I was pissed at myself that I ever slid that finger up his asshole during a great blowjob. He pretty much became ass-obsessed. I had heard of pegging, but I always associated it with dominatrixes with their sissy boys, which is just not my thing. AT ALL. No offense to those who get off on it- different strokes, right? So, we had many heart to heart talks before I became comfortable enough to try it. Even after we had introduced it into our regular sex life, I had my issues. I hated wearing the fake dick. Even if it was pink and covered in sparkles, I felt much less feminine wearing it. Even when my husband’s eyes dilated and his breathing changed dramatically when he saw me in the get up, I felt stupid and awkward and ugly.

Then, when everything became about his ass and what we could stick up it next, I started to get annoyed. He always cums from being pegged. Always. No exceptions. Which meant that my pussy was basically there for decoration. I’m not saying he never got me off, he did, but aside from a couple of fingers, nothing ever went inside me, which was frustrating and depressing. Plus, there’s another thing. Gentlemen, listen very closely: regardless of what the porn industry wants you to think, the female gets ABSOLUTELY NOTHING OUT OF PEGGING. Not physically, anyway. I love the reactions I get from my husband, but it’s like blowjobs- even if we love giving them, we technically are feeling nothing. So, there my husband would be, blissfully satiated and worked over thoroughly, and I’d be left standing there: hot, sweaty, my stomach covered in sticky cum and my legs cramping. I was seriously frustrated. It got to the point where I didn’t want to have sex at all, because I knew it was going to be all about pegging his ass and little else.

So, because I love my husband, I did two things: I told him things had to change a bit and I started researching ways to make the act of pegging more enjoyable for me. I started looking at insertable dildos- like the Feeldoe. No awkward and uncomfortable straps! I got one that was from a different company because I wanted something that would stay in without much effort. Now, I look forward to pegging him. The part that’s inside me hits my g-spot perfectly and in certain positions, I can cum by fucking his ass. Even if I don’t cum, I can at least feel something, which is amazing.

Long story short, if your girl doesn’t want to peg you anymore, start by analyzing yourself first. Are you taking care of her? Or are you treating her like a living sex toy? Make it about the both of you as a couple!!

Feel free to ask questions, and I’ll be sure to answer. Unless you’re an asshole about it- that will just get you publicly shamed.