In the world of femdom, spanking is a common form of punishment, discipline, or erotic play used to assert dominance over a male submissive. There are several different types of spankings that can be administered, each with its own purpose and intensity.
Here are the different ways for spanking men
1. Hand Spanking:
Hand spanking is the most common form of spanking men in femdom play. It involves using the dominant’s hand to deliver a series of slaps to the sub’s buttocks. Hand spanking your man can range from gentle taps to more forceful blows, depending on the desired level of intensity.
2. Paddle Spanking:
Paddle spanking involves using a paddle or a similar implement to deliver harder and more intense blows to the sub’s buttocks. Paddles come in various materials, such as leather, wood, or silicone, and can deliver a more intense sensation compared to hand spanking your man.
3. Caning:
Caning is a more severe form of spanking that involves using a cane or rod to strike the sub’s buttocks. Caning can be extremely painful and can leave lasting marks on the male submissive’s skin. It is important to use caution when administering caning and to communicate boundaries and limits beforehand.
4. Spanking Bench:
A spanking bench is a piece of furniture specifically designed for restraining a submissive and administering spankings. The sub is typically bent over the bench, allowing the dominant easy access to their buttocks for punishment.
Here is the different TYPES of spanking men and how to use the above implements depending on the scenario.
1. Disciplinary Spanking:
– Hand spanking: For a disciplinary spanking, the dominant should use firm and controlled slaps with their hand on the sub’s buttocks. The intensity should be enough to convey authority and discipline, but not cause excessive pain or discomfort. Discipline spankings should be administered in a calm and controlled manner, making it clear that the sub’s behavior is unacceptable.
– Paddle spanking: When using a paddle for disciplinary purposes, the dominant should deliver harder and more intense blows to the sub’s buttocks. The paddle should be used firmly, but not excessively, to reinforce the discipline being imparted to the sub.
– Caning: Caning for discipline should be reserved for more serious infractions and should be administered with caution. The dominant should use a cane or rod to deliver sharp and controlled strikes to the sub’s buttocks, making it clear that the behavior is unacceptable and will not be tolerated.
2. Maintenance Spanking:
– Hand spanking: Maintenance spankings can be administered using lighter and gentler slaps with the hand on the sub’s buttocks. The purpose of a maintenance spanking is to reinforce the power dynamic between the dominant and the submissive and to keep the sub in a submissive mindset. Maintenance spankings can be done regularly, such as once a week or once a month, depending on the dynamic between the partners
– Paddle spanking: When using a paddle for maintenance, the dominant should deliver moderate blows to the sub’s buttocks to maintain discipline and obedience. The intensity should be enough to remind the sub of their submissive role, but not cause discomfort or pain.
– Caning: Caning for maintenance purposes should be done with a lighter touch, using controlled strikes to remind the sub of their submission. Caning can be incorporated into regular maintenance sessions to reinforce the submissive’s role in the dynamic.
3. Pleasurable Spanking:
– Hand spanking: Pleasurable spankings can be administered using a variety of techniques, including light taps, gentle slaps, and playful spanks with the hand. The purpose of a pleasurable spanking is to create arousal, excitement, and intimacy between the dominant and the submissive. The dominant should vary the intensity and rhythm of the spanks to keep the sub engaged and stimulated.
– Paddle spanking: When using a paddle for pleasure, the dominant can vary the intensity and speed of the blows to create different sensations for the sub. Paddle spanking can be incorporated into foreplay or as part of a BDSM scene to enhance pleasure and arousal.
– Caning: Caning for pleasure can involve using a cane or rod to deliver sharp and stimulating strikes to the sub’s buttocks. The dominant should communicate with the sub to ensure that the caning is enjoyable and consensual, with a focus on pleasure and arousal.
Overall, the key to successful spanking in femdom play is communication, trust, and respect between the dominant and the submissive. Whether the spanking is disciplinary, maintenance, or pleasurable, it is important to establish boundaries, consent, and safe words to ensure a safe and enjoyable experience for both partners.
You are so right Mistress! Your posts about spanking realy resonate in my submissive mine!
My Wife has only spanked me for fun while I licking snd sucking her oraly. We dont have intercourse any more so thats a nice thing when Im licking her. She also somtimes sques my baals then.
But I would realy need her to give me HARD spanking when she is disapointed about me. Som times when I dont satesfied her demands she only complaine and nagging about it.
But what Im longing for is her to just give me a unplesant hard spanking and not stopp before I crye and realy regret my doings. I have also said that to her.
I would feel bad while she do it. But it wil realy put me in line and I wil just be more in love and more submissive toward her if she do that.
I know I wil regret wanted this if she does it but in the end I know what I need and I thi k she also need to do that and realy takes controll! Because she have the controll if she just use it!!!