So your hubby says
he wants to be submissive to you. (or you want him to be submissive to you).
Well here is a list of things you may want to do with him, one at a time, as a
proof of his submissiveness. This should all be done in loving, mutual fun way so
have fun, be careful and giggle and kiss a lot…
Shaved.
He
should be shaved. Yes, that’s right, his pubic hair should be shaved off and he
should keep himself smooth and stubble free from now on…
Chastity.
You
are not punishing your man – you are protecting him from his perfectly normal
lack of self-control…
You are not denying him sexual pleasure. In fact, when you do release him from
his male chastity belt, sex will feel better for him and his orgasms will
become much more intense…
You are not denying yourself the sex life you deserve. While he’s locked up
he’ll use his mouth and fingers to provide you with sexual satisfaction on a
regular basis. And, there are ways that you have satisfying penetrative sex
while he is still under lock and key…
Men will try to claim they need to have regular orgasms to stay healthy. This
simply isn’t true. They do need to have ejaculations every so often; but you
can make this happen in a matter of minutes without him getting an erection or
having an orgasm…
Hundreds of thousands of married couples are in the male chastity lifestyle.
It’s not kinky. In fact, the odds are that several of your friends already have
their husband’s crown jewels locked away…
When done correctly, your man will feel more loved by you than he did before
male chastity became a part of your life. In fact, most men eventually thank
their wives for insisting on the lifestyle…
While at first you’ll only keep him locked up for a few days at a time,
eventually he should be restricted to eight to 12 orgasms a year. This is more
than enough…
Over time he’ll start to feel like more of a man, because he’ll know that all
of his sexual energy is going towards pleasing you. He’ll like the fact that he
no longer feels like a little boy who can’t help but play with his little
pee-pee when you are not looking. Instead, he will be saving himself for you…
Violation.
Right
after he shaves and showers for the first time, have him sit on the edge of the
bed, lie back and pull up his knees. You’re going to stick your finger into his
ass. Yes, you’re going to finger fuck him. You will need a rubber glove and
some lubricant, Vaseline, butter, olive oil, whatever.
He
is going to be extremely embarrassed to present himself to you in this fashion,
his anus is a very private spot, not seen or touched by anyone. That is why
you’re doing this. Once he is in position and holding his cheeks apart,
lubricate your middle finger and his asshole and slowly press your finger to
his opening. Slowly start to enter him.
Look
into his eyes as you penetrate him. Talk to him and have him talk to you as you
both experience his submissiveness to you and this act of penetration. Think
about what he is allowing you to do, he’s naked, shaved and your finger fucking
his ass. Pull on his cock and balls as you slide in. Go in as far as you can,
slowly. Look into his eyes when you are in all the way and tell him you are in
all the way. Ask him how if he likes it. This may be the first time you are
inside his body, enjoy the power exchange…
Tease
not Orgasm.
He
needs a good cock teasing at least once a day. This doesn’t mean he’s going to
have an orgasm, in fact he is not. But he needs to be hard and brought to the
edge of an orgasm at least one time a day, either by you, or for you. “For
you”, means bringing himself close to orgasm and stopping. Yes, this means
masturbating for you, on demand.
Two
things here. One, he must learn to tell you he is about ready to orgasm and ask
you to stop and he must learn to masturbate for you, and stop. Orgasm control
is a powerful psychological aspect for a submissive man, and you too will learn
to enjoy your teasing and control. It is another important power exchange with
you controlling the single physical aspect of maleness that is maleness alone,
a hard cock and orgasm at will. This also means that unsupervised masturbation
must end, and he will only orgasm with your permission. Orgasm denial is part
of this teasing…
Strip
and Control
Nudity,
him naked, you dressed. This should be done at awkward times, odd times,
whenever you like, when he least expects it. Obviously if you’re going to tease
his cock, make him strip. Make him strip even if you are not going to tease
him. If he doesn’t usually sleep naked, he should now. In fact, anytime he is
in your bedroom he should be naked. At some point, make sure you bring him to
every room in the house naked. Lead him to each room naked, by his cock, the
basement, laundry room and garage, all will now hold memories of your control…
Nudity
outside is more problematic, but should be attempted. Start with outside of
your home late at night. Be careful to pick a night when you know your
neighbors are away. Again, at night put him in the passenger seat of your car
and tell him to strip. Put the seat all the way back. Pick some back roads and
drive slowly and carefully, and don’t drink. If you like, a highway may give a
glimpse of his nudity to a trucker. He wouldn’t like that, you may. Reach over
with one hand and keep him hard reminding him not to cum. Pick a secluded place
where you can stop to allow him to dress so he doesn’t interfere with your
driving…
Embarrassment.
Embarrassment
is also part of the fun. Be careful not to embarrass him or yourself in font of
friends or co-workers. This must be done carefully and for the fun aspect of
your dominance. Ordering wine and his dinner at a restaurant is a simple start,
and one he will enjoy. While with friends for drinks or dinner, whisper in his
ear, “what do you think they would think knowing you’re shaved, knowing I own
your orgasms”.
After
his yearly physical ask him if the doctor said anything about his shaving.. If
he works out in a gym, ask him if other men are shaved and what they look like,
are they big, circumcised, big balls, small balls, compare them to him. If you
have one girlfriend you can trust, and you probably don’t, arrange an
“accidental” flash. Remember, it only appears as an accident to your
girlfriend, your guy might not like it but he’ll cooperate. He is in gym shorts
and a tee shirt and that is it. You can grab him and tickle him in front of
your friend, accidentally pulling down his shorts exposing him, then after all
the hooting and hollering, pull then all the way down and step on them. He will
have to step out and run. Remember, he knows this is coming so he may be hard,
and of course he is shaved. You can have a quick laugh with your friend and
tell her you better see if he is OK. Go to the bedroom, strip him, grab his
cock and lead him back to your girlfriend, saying, “well you have already seen
him naked, you may as well get a better look.” Doing the same thing in front of
a couple would be more than twice as embarrassing…
Orgasms
You
should orgasm much more than he does. That goes without question, his submissiveness
definitely translates into you cumming more. You need to teach him how to
orally please you better, and as often as you like. I know this may seem odd,
but a tongue up your ass will feel great, and he wants to do it for you, so
tell him that is now a part of your oral pleasure. Don’t worry, you don’t’ have
to do it for him.
Back
rubs, foot rubs, leg rubs, body massages, anything you think you might like you
should try, and then do as much as you like. He loves every minutes of doing
anything for you, especially if he is physically close to you.
He
is not your slave, but he can be a more than a 50% partner in the house holds chores
you don’t like doing. Delegate, delegate, delegate. He will not do things if
you don’t tell him to do them, and show him how you want them done. He can’t
read your mind, so tell him when he is doing something wrong, but more
importantly tell him when he is doing something right, and ask him to do it
again.
It’s
not all about sex but a lot of his submission is. You need to talk to him and
ask him what turns him on or off. Ask him what he expects and wants. Tell him
what you expect and want. Keep an open mind and don’t freak out if he has some
silly fetishes. He is sharing everything with you and no one else, so even if
it seems pretty odd or nasty, try it, make him do it, whatever.
Ejaculate Consumption
There
is only one thing that all submissive men must learn to do. You should have
this conversation with him in a non-sexual environment, so the reality of the
requirement is finite, unequivocal and a given. Every time he orgasms, he must consume his ejaculate. That’s right,
you heard me correctly. If he ejaculates in you he must lick you clean. If he
ejaculates on you, he must lick you clean. If you masturbate him or he
masturbates for you, you must feed him his semen. At some point you should make
him shoot into a cup or a glass and he must drink it down. This requirement for
all submissive men does two things. It puts a real price on his orgasms, and it
shows your acceptance of your dominance, and his acceptance of your dominance,
no matter who brought the topic up. This
is non negotiable and should be explained to him when he first approaches
you with his desire to be submissive to you or your desire to lead the
relationship. If he does not accept this simple requirement, he is not
submissive. It is the only test and proof that he is sincere in his desire to
be submissive, and your only requirement showing you are to assume the
leadership role in the relationship.
There
is much, much more of course, but you will discover things along the way. These
are just a few suggestions but a good starting point for exploring this new
aspect of your relationship. The most important thing is to have fun. If he
approached you, he has a need. If you approached him, you have a desire to
change the course of your relationship. Either way, if it is done in a loving
fashion, it will be fun and bring you closer!
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