It has dawned on me that in civilised countries with equal rights and the rule of law, the BDSM community and the numerous lifestyle relationships there are, must be sustained by submissives rather than dominants. I know both types are required, but if there is a dominant going around tying up and torturing and using and abusing a non-submissive, that would result in an arrest and a prison sentence. But a submissive voluntarily serving and worshipping a vanilla person and pushing and pleading to be dominated by that person is no crime at all.
So the dominants can only do their thing when they hook up with a submissive. It is the existence/supply of submissives that allow the BDSM community to exist. It is submissives that convert many initially vanilla people to become dominant. You will know if you are a regular reader of my blog that I am convinced, (despite the ludicrous 50 Shades Of Grey), that a non-submissive person CANNOT be converted to become submissive by a dominant.
So we all have submissives to thank for the community and lifestyle. Slightly ironic that our pleasure is down to them. However before all the submissives get all puffed up with pride, I am not going to give them any credit! They need and crave dominants. This extract from a recent email from Play-toy to me, sums them up I think.
…………..I am obsessed with you. Since seeing you the other weekend I have just been feeling desperate to see you again. In theory I shouldn’t feel like that as I hated everything you put me through! ………………………….
Source: Ms Scarlet
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