One of the benefits to the woman in a femdom relationship is the ability to scrutinize the details of your partners life with no consequences for your own actions other than your own moral compass.

If your man is overweight, there is never a better time to whip him into shape.  Literally.  If he wants to be in submissive relationship (or even if he doesn’t, and you are making it happen) then hold him accountable to look sexy for you.  This means getting down to his ideal body weight.

It does not matter if he is 5-10 lbs overweight, or 100+ lbs over weight.  Now is the time to give him a diet plan, and keep him to it.  It is your right as his superior to tell him what he can and can’t eat.  You can also make him workout.  Set a realistic goal for weight loss on a weekly basis and check in on these goals and hold him accountable to attaining them.

In our relationship, when we started this, I was 230 lbs.  When we married, I was a greek god.  LIterally.  I had the washboard stomach, huge biceps, legs, and was very physicall fit and strong.  Through the years, I like so many other men let things go a bit, and I ended up about 30 lbs overweight.  Pretty much all in my midsection as it goes with men.

My wife has me on a 2lbs per week loss plan, and if I don’t make my weight, she spanks me very hard for every .1 of a lb overweight.  In the first 2 months since we started doing this I have got down to 215 lbs.  It is working.  I am feeling better.  Without as many orgasms and masturbation, controlling my diet, and an increased workload around the house, it has been relatively easy.

I will easily find my old form again.  I am excited about this.

This form of relationship is not all about better sex.  It is about motivating your man to be better, do better, and accomplish more in less time.  You will find yourself getting your own goals and becoming better too, but no one but yourself will hold you accountable for it.  It is your right to be the boss of the house, and your mans life.  Take it, and own it.

Beat his ass senseless for not making the goals, and I promise you that you will both be a lot happier in your relationship and your overall life together.