Objective:
The program is designed to gradually condition an alpha husband into adopting a submissive role, fostering a mindset of obedience, service, and reverence toward his dominant partner.
Phase 1: Foundation (Days 1-30)
Goal: Establish trust, introduce concepts of dominance and submission, and begin mild conditioning.
Week 1: Initiating the Shift (Days 1-7)
- Open Dialogue: Initiate a conversation about power dynamics in the relationship. Introduce the idea of exploring new roles, but without pressure.
- Small Acts of Obedience: Have him perform minor tasks (e.g., making your coffee, massaging your feet) with the expectation of gratitude and appreciation.
- Positive Reinforcement: Compliment and reward him for compliance with small rewards (e.g., words of affirmation, light physical affection).
Week 2: Building Dominance (Days 8-14)
- Daily Rituals: Assign him small daily rituals like preparing your clothes, cleaning specific areas, etc. This should feel like a natural part of his day.
- Teasing Submission: Begin introducing mild verbal domination during intimate moments, encouraging him to ask for permission or praise your authority.
- Reward and Punishment System: Create a simple system where good behavior is rewarded and non-compliance has minor consequences.
Week 3: Introducing Physical Submission (Days 15-21)
- Light Bondage/Restraint: During intimate moments, introduce light bondage (e.g., tying hands or blindfolds) to make him feel controlled.
- Increased Verbal Control: Use verbal cues such as “good boy” or “who’s in control?” to reinforce the dynamic during these moments.
- Start Journaling: Have him begin journaling his thoughts and feelings about his evolving role and your power.
Week 4: Mental Conditioning (Days 22-30)
- Affirmations: Encourage him to repeat submissive affirmations (e.g., “I love serving my wife,” “My purpose is to please her”) either out loud or in his journal.
- Chore Assignment: Assign more household tasks, positioning them as opportunities to serve and please you.
- Privilege Removal: Slowly reduce some of his previous freedoms (e.g., TV time, social outings) unless he earns them through good behavior.
Phase 2: Deepening Control (Days 31-60)
Goal: Increase both mental and physical control, and deepen the power exchange dynamic.
Week 5: Exploring Kinks and Fetishes (Days 31-37)
- Introduce New Fetishes: Begin exploring specific fetishes (e.g., chastity, foot worship, pegging) that align with both of your interests, ensuring that they reinforce your control.
- Encourage Vulnerability: Use these experiences to push his comfort boundaries slightly, making him more vulnerable and open to new forms of submission.
Week 6: Submission in Public Spaces (Days 38-44)
- Public Behavior: Introduce submissive behaviors in public (e.g., holding your purse, following your lead) in subtle ways.
- Dress Codes: Begin establishing small dress codes at home that reflect his submission (e.g., wearing certain underwear or minimal attire while doing chores).
- Deeper Bondage Play: Increase the intensity of bondage or physical restraint during intimate moments.
Week 7: Sexual Control (Days 45-51)
- Orgasm Denial: Implement orgasm control or denial as a way to increase his desire and focus his attention on you.
- Chastity Introduction: If suitable, introduce the concept of chastity devices and play with the idea of controlled release only by you.
- Praising Service: Reinforce that his sexual satisfaction depends solely on pleasing you.
Week 8: Obedience Testing (Days 52-60)
- Command Tasks: Give direct commands that require immediate obedience (e.g., “Go do the dishes right now” or “Kneel when I enter the room”).
- Role Play: Engage in more elaborate role play where his role as your submissive is more clearly defined, and you exert total control over situations.
- Punishment Training: If he disobeys, implement stricter punishments (e.g., silent treatment, sleeping on the floor) to reinforce consequences.
Phase 3: Complete Ownership (Days 61-90)
Goal: Fully establish a master/slave dynamic where he finds fulfillment in total servitude.
Week 9: Deeper Psychological Control (Days 61-67)
- Daily Mantras: Require him to recite mantras of submission each morning or evening, reinforcing his mindset.
- Increased Control: Begin controlling more aspects of his life (e.g., social activities, finances) while positioning these changes as for his own good.
- Humiliation Play: Gently introduce consensual humiliation (e.g., light teasing, calling him “slave”) to reinforce his lower status in the dynamic.
Week 10: Full Domestic Service (Days 68-74)
- Household Domination: He is now responsible for the majority of household chores. Add extra duties that clearly separate his role as your servant from his previous position.
- Dress Code Enforcement: Make submissive clothing mandatory when at home (e.g., apron, lingerie).
- Obedience Without Hesitation: Expect obedience without question or hesitation at this point. Reward accordingly.
Week 11: Sexual Ownership (Days 75-81)
- Total Control: You now control all aspects of sexual pleasure. He must ask for permission for any kind of sexual release, whether alone or with you.
- Chastity Enforcement: Lock him in chastity for extended periods, with periodic release only when you deem fit.
- Pegging/Other Fetishes: Explore pegging or other fetishes that push his boundaries further, reinforcing his surrender to you.
Week 12: Complete Submission (Days 82-90)
- Total Surrender: By this stage, his mindset should be fully transformed, and he should live to serve and obey you.
- Formalize His Role: You can now formalize his role with a “contract” or set of rules that he must follow going forward.
- Ongoing Training: Establish a system for ongoing training, periodic punishments, and rewards to maintain the dynamic long-term.
Post-Program Maintenance
- Regular Check-Ins: Continue reinforcing your control with regular check-ins and adjustments to the rules as necessary.
- Adjustments to Chastity and Discipline: Maintain chastity, discipline, and fetish play at your discretion to ensure he remains submissive.
- Refinement of the Power Dynamic: Periodically challenge him with new tasks, punishments, or expectations to keep the dynamic fresh and exciting.
That is a wonderful 90 days. I still remember when that happened to me. Reading this reminds me of how lucky I was KB decided to turn my life around. KB has me collared and happy to wear it.
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