While I’m out and proud when it comes to being a Domme to the people around me I’m also a firm believer of not outing my partner.

I’ve had vanilla partners before just like I had subs before. When the occasion arises and my partner proudly and casually mentions being my sub, it goes without saying my instincts will kick in and our pda will change accordingly. Some of our friends are very well aware he’s my sub, others are not.

When I “came out” people’s reactions went from why am I not surprised to whatever rocks your boat, babe to so, you have whips and shit? to mad respect for owning who you are. There was nothing but acceptance and respect. The same goes to my boy’s friends.

As to the part about the beach… Dude, don’t confuse Tumblr stories and fantasies to real life. There’s a time and place for everything.

Public nudist beaches, at least on my side of the world, are often visited by families with children. Never mind the fact I’m a Domme, I’m also a mother and a human being, and it is my firm belief children are to be protected and should be allow to enjoy their childhood in a safe and carefree environment. No child should be exposed to chastity cages and butt plugs. The same applies to every other visitor to a nude beach.

Having said that none of the above applies in an adult and BDSM only environment. To get back to the beach scenario; in stead of wearing a collar my boy wears a leather bracelet with an inscription. To the outside world it’s an innocent piece of jewellery, to us it’s my ownership mark.


Source: FLR


What did your closest friends said when they knew about your lifestyle with your boy and who told them about it? When out on nude beach do you ever make him wear a cage or a butt plug or a collar or anything like that? I’m sorry I’m just really curious?
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