Quite truthfully, they don’t all work.  It still takes 2 to make it work.

The epiphany moment for couples that do make this work, is that both sides need something very much for this to work.

Prior to engaging in this type of relationship with my wife, I had been a fairly normal male thinking that housework was for women, along with the cooking, yada, yada, yada.

Look around and see how many wives complain about their husbands lack of participation in the household chores, and general disinterest in her except when it comes to wanting sex.

This is the norm, and this is why the divorce rate is so high.  It simply does not work in most marriages in todays world.  It takes 2 peoples income in most houses, and then the woman is left with doing most of the stuff at home while the husband sits and watches tv while the wife is running around like a chicken with its head cut off trying to make sure that all the house is in order.

What do women want more than anything?

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The love and adoration, romance, and support of their man.  If a man is truly attentive, supports the wife with her difficult times in life, helps with chores, (even does more than the fair share), and truly listens to his wife, he will have his wifes full attention and love.

What do most men want?

Sex.  You can live in denial, and you can even say that this does not apply to your man, because he usually seems so disinterested.  I will tell you now that it is because, like me, he gave up.  He got tired of rejection, and just learned that he had to “take care of himself” by himself to get the relief that he needed.  This results in having too many orgasms for the male to have any interest in helping around the house, or paying any attention to his wife.

The solution.  The Female Led Relationship.

Lock the husband up in chastity and watch him change as he turns his focus on you.

  • The pros for the women are, now the husband truly will listen, pay attention, help, and be the man that you always wanted him to be.
  • The cons for the woman is that now she needs to learn how to take control and be different than she has ever been.

If the woman can embrace this power, learn how to use it, and manipulate the man, she is in the best time of our life, as she turns her man into her personal servant.

What’s in for the male?

Although up to this point, the man has not done much around the house, and quite truthfully has been less than a perfect husband.   Now he has to do way more around the house than ever, and if his needs are not being met, it is likely he will not get enough out of this new relationship dynamic to stay in it.

So whats in it for him, is the need to be dominated by a woman sexually.  If the woman can learn how to do this, she can dominate him in AND outside of bedroom.

Most men do not even know this side of them exists, but I bet that if a dominate woman took control of 100 men one at a time sexually and forced him to do whatever she asked in the bedroom that 95 would oblige and be blown away.

You see we have been in charge for so long, and it is so expected of us as males, it really is a burden.  Meanwhile the women feel burdened in their lives doing most of the work.

Here is the secret to a blissful life.

Ladies, learn what turns your man on and do it.  Learn to give him every sexual fantasy he could ever want within your boundaries, (stretch these) and watch your man turn into your knight servant that will listen to your every command.

Men, buck up, do the chores, and be the man she wants before she makes the change.  If you have always led in your life and you truly want to give this up, become submissive, live your wildest dreams, then you must make the first move.

Submit.  Listen.  Obey.  Back rub.  Massage.  Lick pussy, and become very good at it all.

This will encourage the power in her, the self confidence to aspire to deliver your domination fantasies to come true.

How far you take it as a couple together is up to you.  In any event, it is a much more satisfying relationship for both people, and once you have had a taste, it will be hard to go back.

If you want to understand and find out what is a perfect relationship for you as a couple, read this article on understanding the different levels.  There is no right or wrong way.  The femdom relationship only assumes one thing.  That a female led relationship with the man submitting to the wife is much more pleasurable for both people than a male dominated relationship.

There are many studies to support this argument, but we will assume that since you are here reading this, that you don’t need coaxing.  You already know this to be true and are looking for the best path to making the transition.

That is the purpose of this website.  To guide you, and to provide help in transforming your relationship into something beyond your wildest expectations like it has for my wife and I.

Life is short.  Seize the day, and do your part.